I’ve started to like my papa as a man, but when I told him, “You don’t have to give me an allowance,” he refused and said, “No, that wouldn’t be right.” Does this mean he doesn’t see me as a romantic interest?

Maezawa from the president’s office will answer as well. > Is it because he doesn’t see me as a romantic prospect? It is a kind of romance, but I think it’s better to understand that he has drawn a line that shouldn’t be crossed. For example, if he has a wife, he may want to enjoy romance while still not wanting to destroy his family. Even if he isn’t married, some men may want to date other women too if someone they feel is a better match comes along. They may simply want the freedom to date as they please. The allowance is what defines that boundary. Once that line is crossed, things can become difficult. He may start being asked, “Why are you seeing other women?” and lose his freedom, or be put in the position of answering, “Which do you prefer, your wife or me?” So basically, I think it’s better for both men and women to maintain the boundary created by the allowance. That way, the relationship can remain more free and uncomplicated. Of course, there are also heartless men who can casually cut a woman off even after she develops genuine feelings. But without an allowance, they can date without spending money, so they may have no problem pursuing that kind of arrangement. I’m glad your partner seems to be a decent person with genuine feelings. I think you should continue enjoying the romance while keeping the allowance arrangement in place.

I’m in Seattle. I think the man in question likes you quite a lot. If you’re seriously considering marriage, then going without an allowance might be fine. The reason he gives you an allowance is that he’s also cheating.

I’m a losing male member. This question really made me reflect. I joined the club hoping to find true love, and three women told me they didn’t need an allowance. In the end, I parted ways with all three of them. I want a “just-right kind of love”—not full-on gachi-koi, but something closer to kachi-koi. Pretty awful, right...? Honestly. I prepare perfectly and go all out to entertain every woman I meet. I genuinely enjoy all the effort that goes into preparing for a date with a woman. They’re always so happy, too. Up to that point, everything is fine. But when they tell me they don’t need an allowance, I suddenly snap back to reality and think, “Huh?” Once is fine. If she says, “You don’t need to give me an allowance today ♡,” I’m happy to accept it—and if she shows me that kind of kindness, I’ll return the favor by increasing her allowance from the next meeting onward. But when she keeps saying she doesn’t need one, I suddenly get scared. I realize that I’m not prepared to commit to things on that level. Still, I can’t bring myself to slack off on a date. I always give it my all. I want to escort a woman perfectly. I don’t want to make even one mistake. A meal is basically foreplay, so I want to win her over before we even get into bed. I’m going to have lunch by myself at the same restaurant tonight’s dinner date will be at, because I want to research the venue in advance. I enjoy this kind of preparation. What should I do...? Should I hold back a little? I want to make women happy, but... I just don’t know. ■ Mack Just as you said, I learned at Universe that a mermaid is beautiful precisely because she’s in the sea, and once she comes ashore, she loses some of her natural beauty. I also think it’s true that someone looks more beautiful when her allowance is higher. So that’s why I was giving my Ace so much. It makes sense now. The allowance was a form of self-suggestion, so I could convince myself, “This girl is beautiful.” I see. That really clears things up. As for lingerie, it’s definitely sexier when she keeps it on ♡

I’m Dai, a male member. Even if he really likes you, turning it into a romantic relationship can come with a lot of emotional baggage, so it may not be what he truly wants.

If you ask for anything more, he may end the arrangement. It’s good that the man has a solid understanding of the dating club. Akari

I’m a male member who goes by Paper Airplane. If she’s married, the allowance gives her an excuse—it’s not cheating. I’d rather keep a clear, money-based boundary in place, since a genuine romantic relationship would be a problem.