Do you think a papa (a male supporter) who postpones plans the day before meeting (without even giving a reason), doesn’t say so much as “sorry,” and then messages you casually on the day you were supposed to meet has no common sense?
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I had cleared my schedule and gotten ready too. If he had at least apologized once, I wouldn’t have minded at all, but...
Am I being too narrow-minded?
It’s Joe.
I’m certainly no less narrow-minded than anyone else, but, no offense, I do think you’re being a bit narrow-minded.
Why? Because it seems pretty obvious—at least to me—that you’re really hoping someone will say, “That’s not true. You’re not narrow-minded at all.” You’re such an attention-seeker! But I like that—it’s very human.
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Someone who lacks basic consideration for others.
I imagine he’s probably rude to the staff when dining out, too.
There’s nothing wrong with you, though.
Akari
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think you’re being narrow-minded, but if you want to receive an allowance, this is something you’ll have to put up with.
If you have another partner and would be fine ending things with this man, then I think it’s okay to tell him that you’d like him to apologize the next time you meet in person.
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I’m in Seattle.
In ten years, I’ve only canceled at the last minute once—after eating raw oysters and coming down with norovirus and a 39°C fever.
When we met next, I gave her two allowances to make up for it. Isn’t that just common courtesy?
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡
Women who cancel at the last minute get rated negatively, but when men do it, no one says anything?
That’s not right, is it…? As human beings, we shouldn’t be canceling at the last minute. If it’s unavoidable because of work, then that’s one thing, but even so, the proper thing to do is apologize.
Questioner, can you put up with that? If he’s a generous papa (well-paying), would you just stay quiet and smile?
If someone can’t even apologize, I’d make him apologize if I were Ayase Nana—but what you do is up to you. Wishing you the best.
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I’m Papercraft, a male member.
There are all kinds of relationships between men and women.
I hope you find someone you’re compatible with and can feel comfortable around.
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