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I’m a female member in my 30s.
The other day, a man I met for the first time messaged me, saying, “I’ll contact you again when I have some time.”
From a man’s perspective, is this a polite way of turning me down?
This is my first time, so I’m not sure. I wanted to ask and hear everyone’s opinions.
Thank you in advance.
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In my case, I’d take that as a sign they’re declining.
I’d message them, “Do you have any free days next month?” If they give you a vague answer, I think it’s best to move on.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I’ve had both kinds of experiences.
I’m the type who prefers to take a little time between dates, so sometimes I end up replying that way.
Then, when I feel like seeing her again after a while and reach out, I sometimes find that she’s blocked me on LINE.
That’s probably my number-one way of ending things, haha.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
I feel like the meaning can vary from person to person, but if you take the words at face value, it sounds something like:
“I’m not particularly eager to meet, but I don’t mind seeing you again.”
Why not try sending something like, “Would you be available to meet next week?”
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡
Everyone’s different, so it’s hard to say for sure, but people who want to see you again usually ask about your next availability right away that day.
For now, try waiting a month. They might contact you once you’re no longer expecting it…
Some people are upfront and say, “I have plans after this today.”
Maybe because I’m in my 40s, I get a lot of offers from people who are lacking in manners, so today I chose Type B. This way, we both have time to think things over at our own pace, right?
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