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What specifically do you do to avoid getting caught doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) by your generous papa (a male supporter)?

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He’s extremely possessive, so the difficulty level is off the charts. I’m sure I’d have to be incredibly careful when re-registering, or he’d find out immediately. But I’m seriously short on money, so I have to do it. I’d really appreciate some advice!
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. After reading Taro’s answer, I wanted to add my thoughts: > “Sokubakkii” means “sokubakkii”—someone who is controlling, right? Employ becomes employer and employee. Train becomes trainer and trainee. So wouldn’t “sokubakkii” mean “the person being controlled,” while “sokubakker” means “the person doing the controlling”? I found myself thinking about something completely trivial first thing in the morning.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Seattle. Joe, you’re seeing Princess Nana again, lol. You’d better run before another eight-figure sum disappears! Someone like you, Joe, is the real deal—a walking stack of cash.
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Take on a regular night job so being out at night becomes normal, then sign up with another dating club. Marika
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I’m Taro, a male member. Does “tsubakky” mean “sokubakky”—someone who’s possessive? It’s pretty confusing(笑). Maybe everyone’s reading it as “tababakky” and getting mixed up. Or perhaps they’re imagining some ferocious man so terrifying that even a whole bunch of Baki Hanmas couldn’t take him on. If you want money, why not work hard in the adult entertainment industry? Plenty of women keep at it without making excuses about not being suited for it. What’s pathetic is fooling around at a dating club without that kind of determination, hoping to pick up some easy trick for getting something for free.
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ジョー・ルビコン
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🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
Um, this is Joe, a male member. First, I should mention that I’m currently drunk in Kokura. I’m here with Osamu and Princess Nana. After sushi, we’re now drinking heavily at Joe’s favorite bar. So I’m being a little more outrageous than usual. In Japanese, of course. And I’m completely ignoring any criticism along the lines of, “You’re looking at the Q&A board in such a nice bar?” Why? Because I’m absolutely plastered. Even in this state, Ayase Nana-san gave me the go-ahead, so I can let loose with my unfiltered comments without worry. So here’s the cry of my heart: “What the heck does ‘tsuka-hakki’ mean?” Naturally, Osamu didn’t know, and neither did Princess Nana. In fact, she answered in fake Hakata dialect—even though she’s from Kyoto—saying, “Don’t use words like that—it’s boring.” You may find this hard to believe, but the reason papa doesn’t understand certain expressions is that he doesn’t have enough money. Seriously! Anyway, I’m about to have sex with Princess Nana for the first time in a while, so I’ll be taking my leave. Bye-bye.
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I’m Aya, a female member. I’m able to live my life without my generous papa ever finding out about my other papas, and the key is to never change your lifestyle. If you’re the type who doesn’t go out drinking or eat out, stick to that. Don’t suddenly change your clothes or hobbies, either. If you suddenly start eating out more often with other papas or your boyfriend, you’ll get caught. Be careful, and good luck!
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡ If he’s supposedly a generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter) but still doesn’t have enough money, then he’s not really a generous papa anymore… What does “tsuba-bakki” mean? The rule is to never say anything in front of your papa, even if you want to. ☆ Joe-sama and Taro-sama—it means being possessive, doesn’t it? People who use words that ordinary people can’t understand do seem unlikely to have any generous papas.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. If you first find out how many women your generous papa is seeing, I don’t think you’ll get caught as long as he’s seeing several women. If that doesn’t seem to be the case, just make it a pay-per-meeting arrangement and see that generous papa three or four times a week. But if that still isn’t enough, why go with a generous papa??
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I think you should just tell your generous (well-paying) papa that you’re really short on money.
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