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Oct 28, 2021 23:54
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(I got permission from one of the site veterans to do a little humblebrag, so there’s a bit of that here.)
I’ve been staying overnight at the home of someone I’m close with about once a week for the past six months. We used to stay at hotels, but recently, unless we’re traveling, he specifically asks me to stay at his place. We have a monthly arrangement, but I don’t contribute to his rent or anything.
The other day, we had dinner together and I was about to head home since we hadn’t planned on staying over, when he messaged me asking if I wanted to spend the night at his place. So I went over. When I arrived, he told me that his boyfriend had messaged him saying he wanted to come over right then. I said I could leave, but he grabbed me and said, “No, don’t go.” Then he handed me his phone and asked me how he should turn him down.
His boyfriend, unaware that he was actually messaging a man in his fifties, kept saying he wanted to see him, while the two of us enjoyed watching him become more and more emotionally unstable. After that, we relaxed as usual and ended up in bed.
He happily said that he’d finally get to be intimate with me again after a while, since I’d been on my period last time and we hadn’t been able to go all the way. So I figured that was probably his main goal. But I was even more surprised that he was basically saying, “I’m better than your boyfriend.” Afterward, he told me how completely satisfied he was, which gave me a nice sense of superiority, so I was satisfied too.
It made me think that there really are times when you prioritize intimacy with your papa over sex with your boyfriend. Has anyone else experienced this?
11 answers
Other
I don’t know if you’re excited or what, but that was incredibly hard to understand for something written by a guy in his fifties.
Marika
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
Come brag when you’ve managed to have an intimate relationship without paying.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t know who the person on LINE is, but I’m impressed by the character of your partner for doing something like that to someone they know.
You have a wonderful partner—I’m jealous. Good for you.
As for your question, I think it could happen if they wanted money or if their relationship with their boyfriend had already broken down. You sometimes prioritize sex with your partner over sex with your spouse too, don’t you?
Other
You’re writing way too much with your nostrils flared, huffing and puffing.
I’ll use the allowance from you to get dolled up and go to my boyfriend’s place.
When it’s someone I truly like, I do feel bad about my stronger-than-usual scent before and after my period.
Your sexual urges are satisfied, your wallet is fuller—
Sounds like a win for your partner.
Akari
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
It was cute how you turned the last part into a question. You almost got scolded by Kazu for not asking one—careful!
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
It would be better to leave it as a happy memory for the person asking, but if you ask here, you’re only going to get realistic answers.
Those who believe will be saved.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s entirely possible for a woman to choose intimacy with her papa over her boyfriend.
It’s about the money. M-O-N-E-Y. From a woman’s perspective, we’re nothing more than ATMs, after all.
Women won’t die if they don’t have sex, but without money, they could potentially die. So it’s not at all strange for them to choose intimacy with their papa instead of their boyfriend because they need the money.
—A loser of a man
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
That may well be the case.
But since only the woman really knows the truth, it probably would have been better not to write down what the person receiving the money said.
I mean, if a male customer was told the same thing by a hostess and wrote about it, would it make you feel anything?
The truth is known only by the person involved—or rather, only by the woman... Since it’s a woman’s job to get paid by making a man misunderstand and feel pleased...
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
There is one, right? lol
No, there isn’t. It’s money.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Joe, a male member.
This doesn’t answer the question at all, but I couldn’t understand the questioner’s post in the slightest. However, since two people have already answered, the problem must be with Joe’s reading comprehension. Maybe studying too much Indonesian has weakened my Japanese.
What’s unfortunate is that I couldn’t figure out what part was supposed to be something to brag about. I do enjoy hearing people’s bragging stories, though.
Ah, I’m just talking to myself. It’s okay once in a while, right?
Other
I’m Osaka, a male member.
Questioner, that’s quite the refreshing humblebrag—but hey, it feels real, so I’ll allow it lol.
I’d love to write something like this too, but I have no experience, so I’m jealous haha.
In a way, this is the ideal level of popularity in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I’d like to preserve it as a specimen.
No, seriously, I want this to be true too (wishful thinking).
This isn’t fiction or a fantasy, right? lol I’m looking forward to the sequel hahaha.