The girl I really like never contacts me, so I keep inviting her out. But why is it that the ones I’m keeping around, even though I wouldn’t mind if things ended, are the ones who send me random messages and regularly say they want to see me?
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I wish the girl I really like would say something like, “I want to see you♡.”
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, with an answer as well.
The fact that you’re already talking about “keeping someone on the back burner” makes me think some women may not want to date you.
Generally speaking, everyone you’re dating should be someone you genuinely like.
You may need to rethink your approach a little.
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I found the answer interesting. Apparently, there’s a distinction between:
- favorites
- guys kept on the back burner
I started wondering who her favorite might be, and realized she has three favorites, including her ace. That said, the only one I could confidently say she’s actually “dating” is her ace.
Though I might just be someone she’s keeping around. No, let’s be honest—I’m definitely just a backup, and probably an ATM too.＾＾；
A loser of a man
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Whether you’re the one doing the asking or being asked, there’s an allowance involved either way, so I see them as having equal value.
There’s no particularly significant difference in meaning between asking and being asked.
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡
Your favorite girl actually has other papas (male supporters) too. You’re just her backup.
And if you want to become her favorite, you should raise her allowance.
You also need to treat the girl you’re keeping on the side very well. Otherwise, your favorite girl will quickly be taken by another generous (well-paying) papa—and you’ll lose your backup girl too.
In the end, you’ll have no one left.
You’ll have to start making offers all over again.
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Women may feel the same way too—that the papa (male supporter) they like doesn’t contact them, while the ones they’re not that interested in keep inviting them out.
Huh?
I had a lovely date today and I’m in such a good mood, so why do I sound kind of harsh?
I wonder.
Marika
And today, somehow, Mack and I really clicked, haha.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
That’s just how the world works（笑）
Not only with relationships—even the things we think, “I’d really like it to go this way,” are often difficult to make happen...
Meanwhile, opportunities we think, “That’s not quite what I had in mind...” keep coming our way, and things move forward...
As for the people we’d like to naturally move toward the kind of relationship we want, I suppose we should strive to become someone they can get there with（笑）
But when I really think about it, I may be a little too ambitious for my abilities too（笑）
I think it’s best to look carefully in the mirror, then decide who your favorites are（笑）
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
That doesn’t count as being a favorite...
> Sending you random LINE messages or regularly telling you she wants to see you
Only once she starts doing that can you say you’re her favorite. First, think about how to become someone she sees as a favorite.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
Of course. The girl you like is also liked by other men. The girls you think it’s fine to let go are the ones no one else is approaching.
If you want your favorite girl to be the one asking to see you, the easiest way is to satisfy her with money more than anyone else—not with the date itself or anything like that.
You can’t change your looks at this point, so get a grip.
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I’m Osaka, one of the male members.
You really have no problem calling someone a “backup,” huh? lol
What’s so fun about such shallow one-upmanship? I honestly can’t understand that mindset at all!
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I exchanged LINE messages every day with my favorite papa (male supporter) from the very beginning. Even if it wasn’t every single day, the papas I became close with afterward were the ones I stayed in frequent contact with. So I’m afraid I don’t really understand where you’re coming from… sorry. I personally prefer mutually affectionate relationships.
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