The woman I favor most, whom I told was the only one I was seeing, found out that I was seeing other women and may be about to break up with me. I don’t know what to do.
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She’s very attractive, has a great personality, and we’re physically compatible. I really like her and can’t imagine her being out of my life. How should I talk things through with her so we can stay together? How would you handle this? Please advise.
I’m BB7.
My condolences.
Some women really don’t mind, apparently.
Try apologizing, and if that doesn’t work, move on to the next one. It just wasn’t meant to be.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
As Mr. Seattle suggested, how about doubling the allowance?
You’ve been seeing her for a long time, right?
Why not just move on to someone new?
If she’s such a hassle, you should just cut ties.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Something similar happened to me before. After that, my papa changed his behavior and started giving me detailed updates about his schedule. He also became more careful about making sure I wouldn’t find out even if he was “seeing someone else.” I’d be perfectly happy if he kept deceiving me until the day he died. When it’s blatantly obvious, it just stirs up my emotions.
So I think you should sincerely apologize and change your behavior. More than anything, though, I decided not to end things because his allowance increased considerably—depending on the month—and I could clearly tell from his actions that he was taking even more care of me than before.
Women in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) aren’t fooled by words alone. Many of us only trust actions, so please keep that in mind.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
There are plenty of replacements out there. To avoid stirring things up, I won’t make excuses or argue—I’ll just let things take their course. If her anger naturally subsides, all the better.
Even if she brings up ending things, I figure she’ll eventually move on to another man if someone with better terms comes along, so I don’t pursue it any further.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Haha（笑）
That’s a pretty common story（笑）
You can simply limit it to your favorites, right?
It’s that easy.
The real issue is what comes afterward...
You’ll want to make offers for about a year—really badly.
If you can make it through that period, you’ll be fine（笑）
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