Why is it that men with creepy, unattractive looks seem to be the ones who have unusual kinks?

I’m Joe, a male member. My first reaction after reading it was, “So someone becomes a pervert just from words that vulgar?” Their vocabulary may be limited, but I wouldn’t call them a pervert. That aside, the two most unusual guys Joe knows are both extremely handsome. If I may, I’d like to share their stories. **No. 1** A handsome pilot—tall and fluent in three languages. According to him, he’s incredibly popular. His particular quirk: he takes an extremely long time to climax and almost never finishes during sex. Masturbation is his greatest pleasure, and he spends over three hours on it. Apparently, he passes out after ejaculating about once every two times, lol. **No. 2** A handsome certified public accountant. He was the ex-boyfriend of an actress everyone knows. The reason they broke up was his particular quirk: during sex, he can’t climax unless his partner makes a silly face. Apparently, the actress eventually left him, saying, “I’m starting to make silly faces during love scenes, and it’s interfering with my work.” I guess even handsome guys can have some pretty unusual kinks.

I’m Fuu, a column writer. I think you’ve just happened to run into people with some pretty intense kinks. Isn’t it a bit more complicated than that? Even handsome guys can have their own particular kinks.

I’m Dai, a male member. A woman I used to be close with ended things with me after she started dating a handsome man she’d liked for years. Apparently, that handsome man had a fetish for urinating on a woman’s face. She said she wasn’t comfortable with it, but because he was the man she’d always liked, she told me she was willing to put up with it. Being handsome doesn’t mean someone won’t have unusual fetishes. For you, getting peed on by a handsome man might not count as an unusual fetish, though, haha.

I’m Taro, a male member. I think the person asking the question probably upset Mac. You shouldn’t just declare that men who enjoy exhibitionism are ugly, haha. To answer seriously, I can understand the mindset of a man who’s being intimate with a woman and, when the usual approach doesn’t get her aroused, starts looking for some more unusual sweet spot that might get a reaction. I once tried using suggestive verbal teasing with a woman who was rather unresponsive, and she reacted well. I became convinced that this was her particular preference and tried exploring it further—but by about the third time, she had completely turned into a dead fish instead. When I talked it over with her, it seemed that she actually found being called explicit names unpleasant. Her body had reacted for a moment, but mentally, she wasn’t into it. As for the question: appearance and kinkiness aren’t correlated. There are plenty of handsome guys who are seriously problematic. When it comes to the kinky type, I honestly think unattractive guys are much easier to handle, haha.