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Oct 26, 2021 13:28
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When there’s a 20-year age gap or more, I just can’t get in the mood. How can I get offers from somewhat younger guys?
5 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m columnist Fuu.
Ask the club to note in your profile that you’re only open to adult relationships with men in their 40s or younger.
Be prepared for the possibility that you’ll receive fewer offers and lower allowances.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
So men in their 50s and 60s are considered old men too, huh. As the oldest respondent here, what am I supposed to do...?
I’m willing to offer a generous allowance, but would that still not be enough?
A defeated man
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
If your profile clearly says at the very top that you don’t accept offers from men in their 50s or older, I don’t think they’ll contact you.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Haha(笑)
That’s too bad(笑)
I think it’s best to understand that’s just how papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is.
Don’t push yourself too hard—why not look for partners more broadly, rather than relying solely on a dating club?(笑)
For various reasons, I can’t search more broadly myself, so I rely on dating clubs.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I'm Kazu, a male member.
It might be a good idea to mention in your profile that you have difficulty imagining an adult relationship (intimate) with someone aged 50 or older.