I previously received an offer for letter dating, but for 20 days I got an incredible number of LINE messages every day. Each message was so long that by the time I finished reading one, I had already received many more long messages, so all I could do was send brief acknowledgments in reply. While I was stunned by the avalanche of messages, he gave me strange advice about how to receive more offers and what to write in my profile, bragged about other women and how much money he usually gave them, suggested that I register with other clubs, and even told me various things about his preferences.
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Since I had been messaging him so much, I assumed we would eventually meet, but then he said he was too busy with work to meet. On top of that, he told me he was going to stop messaging because his wife had found out.
I suppose I should have asked him for an allowance via PayPay or something from the beginning, but that was the end of things between us.
I don't think everyone is like this, but now I can't help questioning letter dating itself. What was that all about? It must also cause trouble for other men, right?
When I met with a staff member recently, I briefly mentioned that something like this had happened to me before. Are many of the men who use letter dating like this? Please tell me.
I’m Dai, a male member.
It’s a good thing you were able to make that judgment before meeting him.
You wouldn’t have gotten anything good out of meeting someone like that anyway.
You should reflect on the fact that you should have cut things off sooner.
Some men also aren’t used to dating by message.
If you’ve exchanged messages for a long time without meeting, try steering things toward an in-person date early on by saying something like, “When do you think we’ll actually be able to meet and talk in person?”
At that point, it’s probably best to confirm whether you’ll receive an allowance comparable to what you would get through Universe Club.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Since there are people like that, I suppose Letter Dating may also be the kind of service where the benefits stand out more clearly for those who are a good fit.
Because that becomes more obvious than with a regular introduction or setup, I imagine the difference between success and failure is much more pronounced.
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Whether it’s a letter date, LINE, email, or anything else, is there anything that’s actually good for women? It depends on the person, though...
People who are truly wonderful and classy don’t ramble on and on.
It just comes across as a small dog barking from afar—going on and on about the person they wish they could be, but aren’t.
If this sounds like you, I hope you’ll reflect on it.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Letter dates don’t have a very good reputation among women, do they?
The other day, a woman asked me whether men who try to save on the introduction fee also tend to be stingy with the allowance（笑).
That hit a little close to home, since I also use letter dates when reaching out to women who live far away, before either of us has firmed up our schedule.
If someone sends you a mountain of messages before you’ve even met, I recommend protecting yourself by taking your time to reply.
I wondered whether the person mentioned in the question might be someone I know, but I decided to answer seriously anyway.
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I’m a male member—the “loser guy.”
I like letter dates, so I use them from time to time.
I usually choose a letter date when the woman is either:
- Located far away
- Someone who seems popular
In a letter date, I share a brief self-introduction and the amount of the allowance.
I let her know in advance how much allowance I can offer and say something like:
“If that’s more than your requested allowance, then let’s meet.”
When the allowance exceeds what she was hoping for, women tend to become more eager, so it’s easier to arrange a meeting.
I would never pull a clumsy stunt like the man the questioner is dealing with.
Also, if the allowance is higher than what she asked for, you can sometimes win her over through the letter date alone. Even with Type B women, I’ve had conversations get so exciting that we progressed to an adult date on the very first day we met.
The club representative knows exactly how I approach women through letter dates. I have a clear method, and if you follow the steps, you can win her over without even stating the allowance amount, which is pretty interesting.
I love psychological games.
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