Tips Oct 25, 2021 08:31

When we stay overnight, I ask the women I’m with to sleep naked beside me without wearing anything. Sometimes they don’t like it, but could women also find it unpleasant or creepy? Sleeping pressed against each other feels nice because it’s warm and comforting. Am I being selfish?

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I’m Ayase Nana♡ I like sleeping naked too♡ When I wear pajamas, they cling to me whenever I turn over, which makes it hard to sleep. So in winter, I sleep in silk pajamas. They’re smooth, so turning over is easier. If staying the night is an option, I’m fine with sleeping naked, but younger women might not be comfortable with it. It’s best not to pressure anyone.
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I’m Osaka, a male member. I get the image, but honestly, when it comes to actually sleeping, we both find having each other there a bit annoying—or, should I say, “honest feelings” and all, lol. Being naked is one thing, but cuddling, resting your head on someone’s arm, or spending some pillow time is fine. If we happen to doze off like that, though, we might wake up in the morning sleeping with our backs to each other. I get the image, lol.
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I’m Shingo Lee, a column writer. Simply put, it sounds like it could seriously affect your health. He seems starved for a woman’s body, which honestly creeps me out. Unless it’s really fulfilling some particular fetish, I’m thinking, “Why not just keep your clothes on and go to sleep?”
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Seattle. It’s cold, and I can’t turn over easily. I’m the king of tossing and turning, so I can’t sleep cuddled up with someone. When I travel, I also prefer twin beds or separate rooms. Nudity costs extra.
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I also like sleeping naked, but I think it depends on whether you’re comfortable with it in the first place and how much you like the man you’re with. Marika
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I’m Aya, a female member. My handsome older papa is pretty close to that, but honestly, I’m not really into it either, haha. It’s cold. I go along with it because he gives me an extremely generous allowance, I don’t want him seeing other women, and most of all, I really love my papa. An ex-boyfriend of mine who liked being babied was like that too… It made me wonder what value there is in being naked. Men are interesting. Women who dislike it probably just don’t like you that much. They may also worry that if they sleep naked, you’ll make advances on them repeatedly. Plus, they can’t sleep in whatever position they want. Overall, I feel like she finds it pretty creepy, so you’re probably better off stopping. On the other hand, if a woman really, really likes you, I think it’s fine.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member—and a total loser. Summer is one thing, but won’t you catch a cold as the weather gets colder? I don’t sleep naked even in summer, so even if a cute girl asked me, “Let’s sleep naked♡,” I’d still want to throw something on. Women would probably be even more reluctant, so why not suggest: “If you want me to sleep naked, I’ll add 2.” As a follow-up: I don’t stay overnight unless the woman wants to. I feel bad for her otherwise. I often let a girl stay over because she has to get up early the next day and wants to be closer to work, while I go home by myself. She needs to get some sleep—it’s better for her skin, too.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. If it’s being disliked, then I suppose that’s what it is. It may sound selfish, but I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being selfish. Everyone is.
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