I’m Aya, a female member.
I feel that unless you’re mentally strong, have a solid core, or are so desperate that you no longer care what happens to your life, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) will only damage you emotionally and physically.
For some reason, I get the feeling that you probably shouldn’t do it.
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This is Ayase Nana ♡
Wouldn’t you be better off registering with a temp agency and working that way?
You should be fine doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but if you receive an offer, you absolutely can’t just skip it because you’re sleepy or don’t feel like going.
I think papa-katsu is a one-person business. Whether you improve or stop receiving offers—or even get forcibly banned—is entirely up to you.
If you’re willing to put in that effort, give it a try.
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
If you can’t earn enough through a regular job because of your abilities or mental health, I don’t recommend papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Prioritize going back to your family home or relying on someone who genuinely cares about you.
papa-katsu is a business arrangement. A papa (a male supporter) isn’t a boyfriend who gives you money.
Some people start out mentally healthy but become emotionally worn down through papa-katsu.
I think papa-katsu would probably take a toll on you too.
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I’m in Seattle.
If you’re confident in your looks, you should definitely give it a try.
Even if you’re not, believe in yourself. If you end up with a papa who’s a person to avoid, don’t cut him off right away—try gently correcting and reforming him somehow.
If he still doesn’t change after you’ve told him, he’s an idiot, so feel free to leave him with a parting shot.
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