Tips Oct 25, 2021 05:45

During intimate moments, I always ask my partner to say things like “Where does it feel good?” or to speak dirty words loudly. Is this kind of preference likely to be disliked?

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I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist. People with this kind of kink are lacking “S-power”—the ability to take the lead in their own preferences. If you truly had the power to be dominant, you wouldn’t be treated in ways that make you wonder, “What are they thinking?” If you ask, “What feels good?” and they just say something like, “…my p****…” or “Um…this is embarrassing,” just to play along, then you’re not controlling the mood at all. Work on getting better at creating the right atmosphere.
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I’m in Seattle. Personally, I like women like that. Before you start, just ask quietly, “Would it be strange if I asked you to say some dirty words loudly?” That should be fine. If it were me, I’d probably say, “Absolutely—I’d love that.”
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I’m Aya, a female member. Women can be frighteningly cruel about their papas’ kinks. I’m sure the women they’ve been with laugh afterward, saying, “That was so gross.” It’s probably best to stay away.
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I’m Dai, a male member. Rather than a particular sexual preference, I feel like this may be the result of watching too much adult video content. There’s a chance she might feel embarrassed and not like it. She may say it if you ask, but it could come across as forced.
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