A woman I had met more than 10 times suddenly stopped responding.
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I honestly can’t think of anything I did that would make her cut me off. The last time we met, we even talked about how it was getting colder and how it would be nice to go to a hot spring sometime soon.
She always replied right away, so I’m really worried that she may have been in an accident or something. Would it be possible for the club to check in with her and make sure she’s okay?
I’m Joe, a male member.
If you’d met 100 times, that would be one thing, but after only about 10 meetings, it happens all the time. Move on to the next one.
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I’m a male member who’s a total loser.
I’ve never once been dumped by a woman.
That’s because I’m kind, handsome, charming, and an irresistible older guy.
Obviously not. It’s simply because my allowance is clearly much higher than the going rate, so women never cut me off. After all, to women, a papa is ultimately just an ATM.
So I think the reason the questioner was cut off is that, among all that woman’s papas, you were at the very bottom of the rankings—and then a papa came along who paid a higher allowance and was reasonably kind, knocking you out of the running.
As a last resort, try telling her through the club, “I’ll double your allowance.”
She might contact you saying something like:
“Sorry, I lost my phone and couldn’t get in touch (sweat).”
And if she really does contact you, leave her on read, get your feelings sorted out, and make an offer to the next woman.
That way, the club can also make money from the setting fee, so it’s a win-win.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
I think it may be possible to check whether she’s safe. However, even if a staff member confirms that she’s okay and tells you so, she still won’t reply to you.
That’s because she hasn’t responded because she wants to end things.
In that case, it may be better to simply leave it at, “Maybe she was in an accident.”
If the woman was in an accident or lost her phone and really wanted to get in touch with the man, she would probably contact the club about it.
We can’t give her the man’s contact information directly, since he may also want to end things.
In that situation, we would let the man know, “We’ve received this message from her,” and then leave it up to the two of them to decide what to do.
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I’m Kamihikōki, a male member.
If the staff were able to confirm her safety, you would have heard from them by now.
If you still haven’t heard anything after a month, it’s probably best to give up.
If something had happened, they would likely have contacted you by then at the latest.
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I’m columnist Fuu.
That’s just how dating clubs work, so it can’t really be helped.
Unfortunately, even if something did happen, there’s almost nothing you could do about it.
Move on, send out tons of offers, and find someone even better than her.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
Are you asking the staff to check whether she’s okay? LOL. Even if you found out, what would you do?
Maybe she got cold feet when you brought up wanting to go to a hot spring?
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think you can ask the club to check on her safety.
However, I vaguely remember reading in the Q&A that the club can contact the woman and let her know that you’d like to hear from her. If she replies to you through the club, you may receive some kind of response.
I couldn’t find the exact question and answer, but I did find a couple of similar questions:
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/4540
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/2677
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Women in papa-katsu can be ruthless sometimes. I think she’s simply lost motivation to meet you. She can say things like “I’d love to go to a hot spring” or “I love you”—you can say anything with words. Her actions tell you everything, so don’t trust anything but what she does.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
When things end, that’s just how it goes.
What you’re feeling is simply lingering attachment.
If she’s still listed with the club, they’ll check in with her after six months to confirm she’s still active, so there’s no need to ask them to check whether she’s okay.
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