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Oct 23, 2021 20:35
6 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
If you really don’t want to, I think it’s fine to say that kissing is off-limits. I’ve met girls before who said anything above the neck was off-limits, or that nipple stimulation was off-limits.
I didn’t continue seeing them. If I were Fuu, I’d look for someone who didn’t have those restrictions.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I think a lot of papas (male supporters) lose interest when they find out you have a boyfriend.
If he tries to kiss you, how about turning your face away and saying, “Kiss my neck instead”? You could make it sound like you’re into neck kisses.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
If kissing is a dealbreaker for you, you’d probably be better off with a sex-work service. It would be tough at a club.
If every female member banned kissing, the club would go under.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think you should just say it as it is.
I don’t kiss, so there shouldn’t be any particular downside for me. But if I happened to feel like kissing her and realized I couldn’t, I’d probably regret it.
Other
I’m Osaka, a male member.
So, does her boyfriend know that she does papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and feel happy that she won’t even kiss him?
I honestly don’t get what exactly he thinks he’s protecting, lol.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I think you should simply tell him as much, while understanding that saying you don’t allow kissing may carry the risk that he won’t continue the arrangement.