I’m going on my first overnight trip with my papa (a male supporter), whom I’ve been seeing for over 10 meetings. Since we’ll be spending so much time together, are there any things women should be mindful of so they don’t disappoint him or make him feel uncomfortable? If there’s anything a woman did during an overnight stay that turned you off or disappointed you, or something that made you happy, I’d appreciate hearing about it for reference. I’m asking specifically about a woman’s behavior and the things she says, rather than the allowance. Of course, I plan to be even more careful than usual about manners and not leaving my belongings scattered around, but he’s a papa I really care about, so I don’t want him to lose interest in me after staying overnight.

I’ll answer too—Maezawa from the president’s office. I like how enthusiastic you are. It sounds like you’re really into each other. I hope your first overnight stay together turns into a wonderful time. Since you’ve already met ten times, I feel like anything would probably be fine. But if you’re especially good at makeup, he might be surprised to see you without it, so you may want to avoid being seen completely bare-faced—or sleep with only light makeup on. Some kind of preparation may be helpful. > I’d like to wake up before my papa in the morning, brush my teeth, and ask him to let me kiss him both above and below. That sounds nice. Start with the lower one, perhaps. Some men may dream of experiencing something like waking up to oral sex, so he might enjoy it if you gave him oral sex while he was asleep. That said, he’d probably notice and wake up while you were taking off his underwear, so you could try to get him to sleep without any on—but that might make him suspicious. (笑) Still, you don’t have to go that far. I’m sure he’d be happy with just a kiss, so there’s no need to push yourself.

I’m in Seattle. I’ve taken over 100 trips in the past seven years. Even if you snore or look like a completely different person without makeup, I still find it endearing. What matters most is that you genuinely enjoy yourself and look happy. A smile and being there for each other—that’s all I need.

I’m Joe, a male member. You’re certainly enthusiastic, and I admire your attitude. But you might want to take things a little more casually. Also, have you ever let your papa (a male supporter) see you without makeup? If you’re staying overnight, you’ll probably end up seeing each other bare-faced. It might be a good idea to think through in advance when you’ll remove your makeup and when you’ll put it back on—including ways to avoid being seen without it. Hope you have a wonderful trip.

I’m Kazu, a male member. When someone seems too perfect, I start imagining what goes on behind the scenes, and it can actually make me nervous. It’s not that I lost interest or was disappointed, but I did find it difficult when a woman had severe teeth grinding or snored loudly.