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Oct 23, 2021 01:05
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Question for the male members: Don’t you wash your feet before coming?
8 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Are you asking about a delivery health service that includes immediate oral sex?
I think the basic practice is to have the client shower before anything happens.
If you’re still concerned, once you’ve gotten to know each other and built some rapport, you could simply say, “Make sure you wash your feet thoroughly.”
There are also creams that help reduce foot odor, so you might consider giving him one as a gift.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Do you mean when you take your clothes off right before having sex? Isn’t that what you do before taking a shower?
That way, you’re both clean and can enjoy kissing and licking each other in various places.
Though you wouldn’t be able to lick someone’s bottom if it smelled—then they’d deserve a spanking!
I always shower before going out to meet someone, and I freshen up again after arriving at the destination.
If someone’s feet smell, there are probably bacteria growing in their shoes too, so I don’t think there’s any problem with disinfecting both their feet and shoes with alcohol.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I take a shower before heading to the meeting place to meet a woman.
They’re not brand-new, but I go out wearing freshly washed socks.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, and I’ll answer too.
Since there’s a shower in the room, I feel like you could be a little more understanding about that.
If the man doesn’t shower at all—or just runs water over himself without actually washing—then I think it’s worth saying something.
That said, I also feel that a certain amount of understanding is necessary.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who’s definitely on the losing end.
For us older guys, smelling good is the absolute basics, and at the very least, making sure we’re odor-free is just common courtesy, right?
That said, I’m actually an extremely smelly old guy myself. (Sweating profusely)
I always take a shower within two hours of meeting a woman—1000% guaranteed. Ideally, within an hour and a half.
If more than two hours have passed since my shower, I start feeling a little uneasy—or rather, I get nervous about meeting her.
Taking care of your fingernails is a given, but don’t you all groom your toenails too? There are even nail salons specifically for men. I always make sure to include a men’s manicure in my pre-date routine.
I believe that paying attention even to the things people can’t see is part of a papa’s etiquette.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
I’ll take a shower before heading out and then come over.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t understand what you mean by saying you’ll come after washing your feet.
You’d normally take a shower at the hotel, so why not get in together and wash them for her?
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
Sorry, I just want to check because the process may be different from what I have in mind: isn’t it supposed to be hotel → brushing your teeth and showering → a little “ahh, ooh”♥?
Having sex right after entering the room without washing first is pretty extreme. I met a woman like that last year, and when things naturally progressed toward doing it bareback, she told me I had to use a condom. I honestly couldn’t understand where the line was.
To answer your question, it never occurred to me to wash only my feet. What is this, a foot bath? More importantly, shouldn’t you wash the penis? Is it really okay to go down on an unwashed penis or put it in your own vulva?