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Oct 22, 2021 13:59
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
As far as continuing the relationship goes, asking for a lower amount may actually be an advantage.
I would never think something as rude as calling someone a “cheap woman.”
That said, I don’t offer different allowances depending on the woman, so it’s hard for me to say…
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
I absolutely don’t think you’re foolish. If you’re happy with her, the relationship could last for years and end up costing the most overall. In fact, if it lasts seven years, it already has.
With someone expensive, the arrangement is more likely to end sooner if your satisfaction drops—since lowering the allowance isn’t really an option.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
When we’re compatible in various ways, she becomes someone I’m truly grateful to have. I tend to treat her fairly well, and those relationships often last relatively long.
Though, deep down, you could also call her a convenient woman—basically synonymous with a dumb, cheap woman.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who’s definitely on the losing end.
I set the allowance differently for each of my regulars, but the regular I pay the most is constantly in financial trouble, while the one receiving the lowest allowance is, in a sense, the safest and most stable.
In other words, I don’t think of her as “a cheap woman” even for a second. I’m simply grateful to her, and I actually want to treat her better than the regular I pay more.
I don’t make any demands of her.
※Not that I’d specifically demand anything, even if I did have expectations.
When I pay a regular more, my expectations naturally become higher, at least subconsciously, so it isn’t all good.
In fact, I recently parted ways with a former favorite regular whose pay-per-meeting allowance I had gradually increased to 20.
Incidentally, I raise the allowance for my lower-paid regulars depending on how much I like them.
So when a regular says,
“I don’t need anything more than this,”
you could say she’s actually very smart in a way.
She probably instinctively understands that accepting more comes with the risk of eventually being cut off.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I keep the allowance the same for everyone, but even if the allowance varies from woman to woman, I wouldn’t think that way.