Hello. I’m a woman who has been happily seeing my papas through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for about six months to five years.
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I’m planning to marry my boyfriend at the end of this year or early next year, but I’d like to continue getting along with my papas and seeing them.
I’ve never told my papas that I have a boyfriend or that I’m getting married.
I’ll be going from single to married, while my papas are married too. Considering the risks, should I continue the relationship without telling them, or should I tell them? I’d love to hear what you all think. Thank you(^^)
I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer this as well.
It seems men want you to tell them, but I think there are also some who would end the relationship if you did.
If you don’t tell him anything, he won’t be held liable for damages if something happens, so I think staying silent may be the better option.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
Generally speaking, some men want to avoid married women to prevent trouble, and there are also men who will cut things off the moment they find out you have a boyfriend or are married—especially if you hadn’t mentioned it before, because they feel they weren’t the only one.
Telling them will only reduce your options, so if you want to continue with your current papas for as long as possible, I think it’s safer to put your guilt aside and not say anything until they find out.
Personally, I’m attracted to married women because I tend to want what belongs to someone else, but I avoid making offers in the first place to prevent trouble.
It may mean saying goodbye, but I’d appreciate it more if you told me.
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I’m in Seattle.
If you can make the timing work and come up with a convincing excuse, I think it’s fine to keep quiet.
An ATM is important, after all. Let’s keep some money tucked away in preparation for a divorce.
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