I can meet papas, but I can’t seem to meet a boyfriend. Where do you all meet people? I can’t rely on my papa emotionally, and I don’t really trust him, so I feel lonely.
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Do you all have someone you can talk to about anything, rely on, and let yourself lean on?
I’m a male member named Basil.
If you’re able to sign up for a dating club or a papa-katsu app, you have plenty of options, including mainstream dating apps, and countless chances to find a boyfriend. Aren’t you just expecting too much compared with a papa?
There’s no such person you can literally talk to about anything, rely on, and let yourself lean on. Even if you think there is, you’re really just choosing what to talk about depending on the situation.
For example, you can’t exactly tell your parents or siblings about doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), can you?
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I don’t have anyone I can both talk to about anything and truly rely on. The people I do have are either someone I can tell anything to but can’t rely on, or someone I can rely on but can’t tell everything to.
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I’m in Seattle.
These days, with everything online, I think your best bet is to go through a hundred rounds of dating apps.
If you meet 100 people, you’re bound to find someone good eventually. It won’t be easy, but all you can do is take action.
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