Maezawa here as well.
If offers come flooding in, we may sometimes make a profile private.
However, as Aizawa mentioned, we always check with the person first, saying something like:
“You’re receiving a lot of offers—is that okay?”
“Would you like us to pause the offers for now?”
We then ask whether they would like their profile hidden.
So, if someone is receiving a lot of offers, I don’t think their profile would be hidden without their knowledge. That said, these procedures aren’t standardized nationwide, so there may be branches that manage offers without checking with the person first.
You could also say that it’s more efficient to manage the offers without asking, so I don’t think either approach is necessarily better.
Just to be safe, you could contact the branch where you registered and ask, “I’ve stopped receiving offers. Is it possible that my profile has been hidden?”
If the person was consulted first, their profile will be made visible again once they contact us to say they’re ready to resume receiving offers, or once the period they specified in advance has passed.
This isn’t done to balance out the distribution of offers. It’s to prevent the woman from reaching the point where she feels, “I can’t handle any more dates.”
If we don’t do this, after receiving a flood of offers, she may start saying things like, “I can’t make it today,” then stop responding altogether or contact us saying she wants to leave.
Going on dates with several different men in quick succession may be more exhausting than you’d imagine.
So even if you feel you could handle more dates, I’m inclined to think it’s better not to overdo it.
That said, if you’re confident you’re tough enough to manage, it would be a good idea to let them know.
There may also be other reasons.
For example, the branch may be unable to contact you because of some issue with the LINE account you registered. If your messages on LINE aren’t being read, you could try registering your LINE account again through the official website and contacting them, or call them and ask whether your LINE messages are coming through.
Also, if you were late for a date, or if you had to cancel on the day because of the flu—which is currently going around—you may be kept hidden for a while as a penalty, even after you’ve recovered.
This is Aizawa from the Tokyo branch.
As you mentioned, when offers come flooding in, we may temporarily lower your profile’s visibility. However, we generally confirm with the woman first before taking action, so if you’re worried, please contact your branch office!!
When offers pour in, some women find it difficult to coordinate everything and end up not knowing what’s going on. In those cases, we may ask whether they would like to temporarily limit offers until things settle down.
If you contact us and your profile has been hidden from the site, please let us know that coordination is no problem and that you would like to continue receiving offers! Of course, this assumes that you haven’t scheduled two dates on the same day or said you were available when you actually weren’t.
If your profile hasn’t been hidden, possible reasons include new women joining one after another, pushing your profile further back in the listings and making it harder to notice, or the men who liked your profile having already sent their offers.
Adding comments or uploading selfies can help attract more attention from men, so it may be worth trying those things as well.
That said, honestly, someone who has received multiple offers is in a very fortunate position. Rather than constantly moving on to the next person, I hope you’ll also put more effort into nurturing the connections you’ve made with the men you’ve met.
The more people involved, the harder it becomes to coordinate, and unfortunately, it seems quite common for relationships to gradually fade as a result.
