I’m the one who asked about feeling depressed because my boyfriend kept wanting an adult relationship (intimate). Thank you for your answers. You’re right—the idea that getting paid makes it healthy is flawed.

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, and I’ll answer this one too. > I’d also like to keep him from getting bored with me, but I guess that depends more on compatibility than effort, doesn’t it? No—this is exactly where effort matters. I feel like compatibility is mainly something people consider when deciding whether to start seeing someone in the first place. Once you’re together, I think things can change depending on how much effort the woman puts in.

I’m columnist Fuu. I read the previous question too, but why not help satisfy his youthful urges and make him completely smitten with you? If he’s told that he only wants your body once a week, that would be rather sad from a guy’s perspective. When I was living with my partner at university, Fuu and he were intimate almost every day. I think there are also things you can do on your end so he doesn’t get bored. - Don’t show all your skills right from the start. - Don’t forget to be shy—for example, after taking a shower, don’t come out completely naked; put on some underwear or wrap yourself in a towel. - Occasionally have a week when you don’t let things progress—say you’re not feeling well—and keep him waiting a little. - Change the setting from time to time. Create a contrast—for example, usually act shy, then suddenly become very playful and seductive. Those are just ideas from Fuu’s perspective, so why not look online for tips from a woman’s point of view on how to keep things from getting stale?

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Women may get bored with sex, but men never get tired of it when the mental and physical chemistry is perfect—whether it’s with a girlfriend, wife, or woman from a dating club.

I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist. It’s not that people get bored if you have too much sex. They get bored when, after having lots of sex, they start thinking, “This person has nothing going for them besides sex.” Both compatibility and effort matter. It’s important to value your boyfriend, while also making time to do things outside of your relationship. I also think people who are taking on challenges—whether at work or through their hobbies—are less likely to become boring.