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Oct 19, 2021 22:17
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I prefer someone who can really drink, not just have a taste.
I have a wine cellar at home stocked with wines I’d like to enjoy together, but would inviting someone over to drink at my place make her wary?
At what stage would it be appropriate to invite her over?
I do keep the place tidy and clean.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
I can drink wine as long as it doesn’t give me a headache.
I’m from a part of Osaka known for heavy drinkers.
When my liver is in good shape, I can drink quite a lot.
As for a date at someone’s home, I figured around the third date would be okay rather than the first, but everyone seems to write that they only do that after being together for a long time.
Maybe I’m too easygoing about that… ( ̄▽ ̄;)
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I’m Joe, a male member.
I’m just a drunk, so I’m hardly in a position to act high and mighty, but as someone who shares the same tastes, I also like women who enjoy drinking.
As everyone has said, inviting someone to your home probably isn’t that easy. But if she enjoys alcohol—especially wine—she’ll surely be very interested in your collection. So how about bringing a few bottles from your collection to a familiar bar or restaurant first, then using them as an icebreaker to invite her back to your place? It may not work, but I wish you the best of luck.
Incidentally, someone once asked me, “Would you like to come see my wine collection?” I was thrilled and went over, drooling—not just from my mouth, either. Naturally, they stripped away my disguise. I’m still bitter about it!
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Young women these days don’t drink much. So I think it’s best to approach women in their late 20s or older who are working professionals and mention that they like wine, then spend at least six months getting to know them socially before inviting them over.
As for inviting someone to drink at your place, you should only do that after you’ve had a fun time drinking together outside and can clearly tell that she enjoys alcohol. Even then, I think it would be difficult unless she’s really into wine.
Other
Find a woman who enjoys eating and drinking lots of good food with you, and who’ll understand when you mention that you have some amazing wine at home. You can say, “Well, I guess going to my place isn’t an option… but I do have something like this.” If she says she’d like to go for a drink, invite her over.
If that feels too roundabout and bothersome, just have drinks somewhere out.
Marika