I’m a female member who joined recently and registered as Type C.
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I met two male members within one week.
The first man met me at a restaurant inside a business hotel and then invited me up to his room. Since it was my first time meeting someone through a dating club, I was nervous and followed him upstairs without questioning it. Once we entered the room, he asked how much allowance I wanted, so I told him I was hoping for ¥50,000. He then said that he had already paid tens of thousands of yen just to be introduced to me, plus ¥5,000 for the meal and ¥5,000 for the hotel, so he couldn’t pay that much. He pressured me into accepting ¥30,000. Honestly, I was scared because it was my first time and I couldn’t refuse.
The second man met me at a family restaurant near a major station in Tokyo. After we ate, he told me to follow him because we would be walking somewhere. I followed him and ended up at his one-room apartment. It was an old, dirty building, so I immediately realized it was his home, but his attitude was overbearing and he took me inside anyway. As soon as we entered, he handed me ¥30,000. I asked if I could receive the ¥50,000 I had requested, but he said that every woman he had met through Universe had agreed to ¥30,000, and I was too scared to argue. The worst part was when I asked him to use protection, he said he didn’t have any at home and that the women he usually met always did it without protection. He more or less forced himself on me.
I cried while talking to a friend and went to a clinic to get emergency contraception, but does this kind of thing happen every time at Universe? Is it my fault for being inexperienced and unfamiliar with dating arrangements? Apparently, I already have two appointments set up this week and nearly ten more offers afterward, but I’m scared that this will happen every time, so I’m thinking about quitting. I absolutely don’t want to be taken to someone’s home or have it happen without protection ever again…
I’m Aya, a female member.
That sounds absolutely awful. Maybe it was because you’re a C type? I’m a B type, so nothing like that has happened to me from the first meeting, and even when things have progressed to going to a hotel, I’ve never been treated that way. But I’m not sure whether it’s a matter of type. Sorry.
In any case, please leave feedback. And from next time on, go in prepared so you won’t be suddenly pressured into anything. That really was a terrible experience.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
Given that you’re attractive enough to have received offers from 12 men in total, it’s a little puzzling that you’ve continued to be treated this way, starting with an allowance of only ¥30,000—the bare minimum.
Judging from your question, you probably give off a strong vibe that you can’t say no, so they took you lightly.
Getting this many offers is pretty rare. The second guy was an irredeemable piece of trash, but there are also extremely generous papas out there—the complete opposite.
I’d chalk it up to a run of bad luck and keep going a little longer. Statistically speaking, I feel like you’re bound to meet a good man eventually.
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Why did you rate him a C if you couldn’t turn down something like that?
If you can’t speak up, you shouldn’t give someone a C rating.
Of course the man is in the wrong, but I don’t think everyone who meets him ends up feeling that way.
Marika
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I’m always left wondering what men like that were thinking when they joined Universe Club.
I’ve never met anyone like that myself, but pay close attention—you can usually get a sense of what someone’s like from the way they eat and speak.
They can damage both your mind and body.
It sounds like it could be traumatizing. Still, decent men will choose an appropriate place for a first meeting, so keep your antenna up and stay alert.
Akari
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I’m Nana Ayase♡
That sounds like an awful experience. It happens far too often.
I turn them down as soon as the meal is over, but…
If you’re scared, you should quit.
Rather than pregnancy, you’re more likely to be given an STI.
Please LINE the staff and tell them what happened.
Let’s have men like that forcibly removed from the service.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
The first incident aside, please give the club detailed feedback about the second one.
Rather than posting in the Q&A box, contact the club first. I’m sure the staff will take your concerns seriously and support you.
It must have been frightening, but since you’re responsible for protecting yourself, please at least confirm the allowance and whether protection will be used before leaving the dinner table or when discussing what happens after the meal.
Above all, please make sure to give the club feedback. If you don’t, someone else could become the next victim, and the whole thing may end up being dismissed as nothing more than the questioner’s imagination.
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I’m “Makeotoko,” a male member.
The second male member’s actions constitute a crime, so please make sure to report him to the club.
I also have a request for the club.
Please officially announce that this second male member has been forcibly expelled.
Something along the lines of:
“We investigated the matter posted in the anonymous question box and confirmed that it was true, so we have forcibly expelled the member. As for whether to report it to the authorities, the club cannot get involved, so we are leaving that decision up to the female member.”
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I’m in Seattle.
If a man is acting that strangely, just turn him down. And if you haven’t decided yet, it’s odd to go along with him in the first place.
If you’re too scared to say no, this probably isn’t for you.
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I’m Hikouki, a male member.
If it’s not a good fit for you, it might be better to quit.
I think some women simply don’t get treated that way at all.
I’ve heard that in Kanto, where there are large numbers of both men and women, the treatment at the low end can be extremely harsh—far beyond what you’d see in Kansai.
Alternatively, if you’re getting that many offers, maybe you could accept offers only outside the region. Then you might find that most men are willing to offer 5.
I imagine that outside Kanto, you’re probably an attractive woman who could easily receive 5 or more at the Platinum level or above.
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