What puzzles me more than students is why working women who don’t seem to have any financial difficulties do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I’m not talking about single mothers, but women who have proper jobs and are financially independent.
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The working woman I was seeing until recently was even more of a mystery. She had taken several lessons since childhood, studied abroad while she was a student, and seemed to come from a relatively well-off family, so I found it even harder to understand. When I asked why she started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), she said something about wanting to save money while she was young, but if that’s the reason, she doesn’t really need to do papa-katsu, does she?
I could understand if she were looking for an older man she could rely on emotionally because of stress from work and so on, but she always kept a certain distance, and the relationship felt very transactional. I just couldn’t figure her out.
I’m a male member who’s basically a loser.
I earn over ⚫ a year, but I’m anxious every day, so I work nonstop to keep myself calm.
Even if my annual income exceeded 10⚫, I probably still wouldn’t feel any less anxious.
Once you have money, the fear of losing it comes rushing in. It’s kind of like being unable to stop working out.
Women probably want money even more than men do. No amount of money can ever make you feel completely secure, so there’s nothing strange about doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). And as far as I’m concerned, female members who already have money are more than welcome, too.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I imagine it’s because relying solely on salaried income feels a little precarious. They’d like to have an extra few hundred thousand yen a month, but not badly enough to take on a side job.
Women also usually have sex for fairly vague reasons, don’t they? For women with higher standards, it may depend on whether they seem likely to get married, but I think that still falls under “just because.” There may be women with even higher standards who require legal marriage, but I’ve never met one.
I think the only question is whether that same “just because” applies to older men and to relationships involving an allowance.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer as well.
> You said you wanted to save money while you’re young, but if that’s your reason, you don’t really need to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), do you?
You say there’s no need to do papa-katsu, but I feel it’s impossible to save money on a regular job alone.
Specifically, how can someone start saving?
I don’t know what your target amount is, but please explain, in under 400 characters, how to save 100 million yen in a realistic, easy-to-understand way that anyone could actually follow.
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