Even the monthly papa (male supporter) who treats me well said when we first met that many female university students are people to avoid. Are inconsiderate female university students inconsiderate regardless of their academic background? I don’t mean to brag, but my papa-katsu friends and I attend one of the top private universities in our area. We’re not exceptionally brilliant, but our academic backgrounds are good enough to earn compliments from highly educated papas.
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Men who have met many women through dating clubs say that female university students tend to be more likely to be late or otherwise inconsiderate. And when I hear about the only female university students they considered good, they’re always girls with a certain level of academic achievement, such as those attending prestigious national universities or medical schools—or girls who went to the same university as me.
I don’t think people should be judged based on their academic background, but what’s the reality?
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Going to a private university means you’re not smart.
You can’t get into a national or public university, so a private one is your only option.
I really wish you’d stop going to college just to have fun.
It costs money and takes time, so it’s a waste. What do you even want to be in the future?
Maybe it’s time to stop going to university just because you feel like you should? (From Mama)
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer this too.
There seem to be some contradictions in your story.
Are you currently a college student?
If you are, then the statement, “When we first met, he said that female college students are often a person to avoid,” seems contradictory.
If he says there are many people to avoid among college students, yet only makes offers to students—and that’s how he met you—then I don’t think that papa is discriminating against them.
(He may say that verbally, but he still makes offers specifically to students.)
Or are you no longer a student, and does that papa not make offers to students? In other words, did you meet him because you were no longer a student?
But then the part where you say, “My papa-katsu friends and I attend the top private university in our area,” would be contradictory.
So I assume you’re currently a student.
Although you say discrimination is wrong, your papa hasn’t discriminated against students. He actually made an offer to a student, went on a date with her, and is sharing his experience as a result.
So I don’t think he’s discriminating against anyone.
He may be saying that because he genuinely felt there were many people to avoid, while still continuing to make offers to students…
I don’t see any discrimination here.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
Generally speaking, girls from universities with higher entrance scores seem more sensible. I suppose families with higher incomes, who can afford to invest in their children’s education, also tend to instill better manners.
College students are generally below my usual type, but I sometimes make offers to girls from prestigious universities who seem to have good personalities based on the staff comments.
That said, the most out-there girl I’ve ever met was from one of the most elite private universities in the humanities, so it really can be hit or miss.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t make offers to female college students very often, but it’s not that I never do.
More than their educational background, though, I feel that female college students tend to have a lot of free time and can easily become professional sugar babies.
They’re not necessarily unreasonable from the start—they become that way as they get used to being fawned over.
That said, I love humble female college students.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
A person’s character isn’t determined solely by their educational background, but academic credentials can be a useful gauge of how seriously someone applied themselves to classroom study. So I do think that the higher someone’s educational background, the more likely they are to be serious, patient, and capable of writing coherently. Those qualities can certainly be useful in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), too.
This is somewhat unrelated, but apparently a papa (a male supporter) from Kyushu once offered to meet a Keio student who was also from Kyushu. She told him which high school she had attended, but based on that school’s academic level, it was supposedly impossible for her to have gotten into Keio. He realized she had lied about her educational background and was completely put off.
She happened to get caught because the papa was from Kyushu as well… A lie that gets exposed immediately is a definite negative, and apparently she then said at the hotel, “I’ll wear fishnet stockings, so give me an extra ¥50,000.” Maybe she was just completely shameless.
In any case, for people who have nothing else to be proud of, I think educational credentials—which can give you an advantage even in new graduate hiring—are the ultimate life hack.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
The female college students I used to invite out for meals in exchange for transportation money were mostly humanities students at private universities. That included students from prestigious schools like Keio and Waseda, but I didn’t notice much difference in terms of academic standing.
I’ve met students from national or public universities and STEM majors while they were working part-time as hostesses or cabaret club girls. They did seem relatively more composed—perhaps because they had to spend more time studying, because they worked in the nightlife industry, or because they didn’t often get into mischief with their friends.
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I’m Papercraft, a male member.
I don’t think things like educational background or being a female university student matter that much. Sometimes you may even find someone appealing precisely because they’re the complete opposite of you.
In papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), neither men nor women should take everything the other person says at face value.
I think it’s only natural to tailor what you say to please the person listening.
Also, especially in papa-katsu, I think many men don’t care that much about educational background. These days, people aiming for top academic credentials sometimes don’t even apply to Waseda or Keio because there aren’t any private universities left for them to apply to. So I don’t think attending a regional private university would be seen as having a highly prestigious education. There’s no need to go out of your way to compare yourself with others or worry about what they think. (The more I write, the more it sounds like I’m hung up on it… No need to answer this either…)
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