Don’t men who want to have unprotected sex ever worry that they could catch an STI from a woman? Even though there’s a possibility of being infected, aren’t they afraid?
This content is machine-translated.
I think it’s fine if both people have tested negative for STIs, or if the woman is on the pill and consents, but I’m honestly more concerned about men who want to have unprotected sex with anyone. They’re putting themselves at risk too—are they really okay with that?
I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist.
If there are risks, then don’t have sex.
You can still catch an STI even if you use a condom!
There are risks in the first place!
Sex is inherently a balance between “risks and rewards.”
Most men probably ask if it’s okay to go without a condom because it feels better, and put one on if you say no, right?
If he forces himself on you even after you say no, take legal action. And if you’re okay with sex using a condom, just tell him, “Put on a condom,” every time.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer as well.
I think men who try to go without a condom are often people who have never had an STI before.
(Though the reverse isn’t necessarily true. I think more people who use condoms have never had an STI.)
So they probably believe it won’t happen to them.
Also, they usually choose women who don’t seem to get around much, and observe their condition—for example, checking whether there’s anything unusual down there.
Because of all that, they believe they alone won’t catch anything.
So, to answer your question:
> Aren’t they scared?
I don’t think they are.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Men who want to have unprotected sex clearly don’t know anything about STIs, so please be careful. I think you should at least educate yourselves a little ((sigh)).
There are lies everywhere in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so you can’t trust anyone 100%: “You’re the only one,” “I only see papas,” and so on. Lies, lies.
Some people even seem to think that taking the pill means they can’t get an STI. I honestly wonder how they come to that conclusion.
☆ Basil, please get tested every month. It doesn’t hurt—it’s just a quick little prick (sweat).
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Dai, a male member.
I contracted an STI in the past, and I never want to go through that again.
That’s why I have no intention of having unprotected sex through my club arrangements.
Men who have never had an STI may be influenced by normalcy bias, leading them to naively believe, “It won’t happen to me.”
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Basil, a male member.
I love going bare, but like with COVID, I’ve never caught anything myself, so I tend to take infections too lightly. I hardly ever get tested.
As for pregnancy, I do understand that it places almost all the burden on the woman, so I make sure to get her consent beforehand at the very least, and ask her to take medication whenever possible. But as you said, I just can’t resist the momentary pleasure.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
