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Oct 17, 2021 15:45
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I came up with reasons like:
“Something about it feels nice (lol).”
“I get bored while you’re doing your makeup, and watching me masturbate turns me on.”
“Because you won’t do it for me from the morning.”
Marika
Other
I’m Nana Ayase♡
What a cute papa (a male supporter). If it were me, I’d make a move on him first thing in the morning.
Other
Teramoto from Universe Tokyo will answer as well.
This brings back memories. When I was still very inexperienced with women, I couldn’t bring myself to say anything, so I would deliberately hint that I took care of things by myself and wait for them to make the first move.
I really understand how people who struggle to speak up feel. I think they’d be very happy if you gently broached the subject—or, rather, showed them a little understanding. That is, if you’re comfortable with it, of course!
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date ◎ Yume, a male member.
I definitely think you should give him a chance. If you get the opportunity, please do spend some time with him. I’m sure he’s really waiting for you.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well.
I don’t really understand why he would masturbate while staying overnight in the same room as you, but if he isn’t a habitual masturbator, maybe you could take care of him when he wakes up, before getting ready to go out.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
The fact that you can laugh about it and say, “You really like that, huh?” shows a sweet, comfortable dynamic between you two.
If he wanted you to do it, I think he’d probably say so, so it’s probably fine to leave things as they are.
If he does ask you to, doing it would likely make him happy.
P.S. It reminded me of a friend who enjoys masturbating, then having his partner perform oral sex right before he finishes, ejaculating in her mouth, and having her clean him up afterward. If you’re not uncomfortable with it, he’d probably be pleased if you did the same.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
Aren’t you still feeling pent-up because you’re not seeing him often enough? If you just laugh it off without giving him attention, he’ll eventually cut you off—and you’ll regret it.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
It’s because you haven’t taken care of him first thing in the morning.