I’ve made offers to women from various class types, but don’t you find Black Class B types particularly difficult to deal with compared with the others?
It feels like they have a much thicker wall to get past than Black C types or Platinum B types. (汗)
They seem to have their guard up really tightly...
I can’t tell what they’re thinking, so how am I supposed to negotiate with them and get a yes?
I’m BB7.
I think it really depends on the person.
Even among Black B’s, there are plenty of genuinely nice girls.
But if she’s the type who thinks, “I’m drowning in offers and can take my pick. Obviously I’m worth it—hmph. What’s that? That’s all you’re offering? Go wash your face and come back,”
then I think it’s better not to approach her in the first place.
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I’m a male member, Basil.
I don’t really pay much attention to differences in class or dating type.
I believe I’ve only made offers to Black B members twice. It’s a small sample size, but their allowances were average, and I didn’t notice any particular difference compared with others.
If anything, Platinum B members seem more likely to be pretentious or demanding.
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I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
I know what you mean. One of the “Black B” women was like that—she received more than 20 offers right after registering. I assume all the men offered high amounts trying to secure her, which left her unsure, and in the end she chose the man offering a generous allowance for dinner dates.
That said, it really depends on the person. I’ve been able to continue seeing other Black B women at fairly standard allowance rates.
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I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer as well.
Since women aren’t told their membership class
(although it seems some men are telling them anyway, so those men should probably be penalized—having their account suspended and losing access to the member page for a month every time they tell a woman),
I feel that saying “Platinum B is fine, but Black B is a much tougher wall to break through” is largely based on your own bias.
For one thing, there are Platinum women who are no better than Black members, and vice versa. So if anything, it seems like you’re placing too much importance on the class system.
That said, women in the Black class may have been popular their entire lives and could be used to being flattered and showered with attention.
So winning them over may be somewhat more difficult.
To begin with, don’t you think that because you’re paying, you’re the one who gets to choose?
If so, you’re mistaken.
No matter whether you’re paying or not, the choice is ultimately up to the woman.
I think you need to keep that in mind and act accordingly.
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This is Nana Ayase ♡
In my mind, Black B is by far the hardest to get into among the ranks and types. I picture it as being reserved exclusively for handsome, wealthy papas.
If you fit the description above, then your actions may be what’s holding you back. Take a moment to reflect on yourself.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
It’s not just Black B-type women—the more popular a woman is, the harder she is to deal with.
They’re in a position where they can choose the men they date.
I think it feels more difficult because they evaluate you on factors besides the allowance as well.
If Black B-type women are turning you down, the other women you’re seeing may also be putting up with something when they date you.
One way to improve might be to ask the other women whether there’s anything they’re dissatisfied with about your dates.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who thinks Type B is great.
I understand how you feel, too.
At first, Black Class Type B was bewildering because there were some women with truly outrageous expectations—asking for several times, or even dozens of times, the usual pay-per-meeting allowance just for dinner. It was hard to know what to make of it.
Then letter dating began. As long as you can establish a certain level of contact before meeting in person, it’s no different from a regular Type B arrangement. In fact, things go so smoothly that I sometimes think letter dating may be particularly well suited to Type B, perhaps because trust has already developed beforehand.
I also feel that things you might not be able to convey after only one or two meetings are more likely to get across, which helps create a sense of security.
With Black Class women, I also make sure not to discuss or negotiate the allowance before progressing to an adult relationship. I think it’s perfectly fine to move forward once trust and a sense of security have been established and the atmosphere naturally develops in that direction.
Especially with Black Class women—particularly those who are popular—some may not place their main focus on the allowance amount.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
I don’t particularly feel that you need to change your approach or strategy based on class or type.
That said, I do think the conversation needs to progress differently depending on the PJ’s level of dating experience, the offers she’s received so far, and the kind of relationship she’s had with her papas.
At the end of the day, it all comes down to matching, so there are probably as many different vibes as there are people—100 people, 100 different possibilities.
Trying to analyze patterns and strategies is probably a waste of time, lol.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it’ll be difficult as long as you’re still trying to negotiate.
Also, as I always say, everyone has their own way of making advances.
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