My dinner-only papa has suggested taking a trip together.

I’m a male member named Basil. If the man requested it, I don’t think it’s rude to confirm, since being tied up for a long time is different from the usual arrangement. In my case, if we’re going to be affectionate, I pay the same amount as I would for an intimate encounter, regardless of how things turn out. And since it takes up more of her time, I always add at least an extra 10,000 yen per day.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. If you’re close, I don’t think asking would be rude. If you feel it’s difficult to bring up or that you have to ask, it sounds like you haven’t built enough trust yet. It’s probably better to wait until you feel comfortable enough to enjoy traveling together. > If the allowance is the same as for dinner Even if there’s no intimacy, I think she’d still give you an overnight allowance. Even without you saying anything, it would probably be several times the dinner-only amount—at the very least, no less than the amount for an adult relationship.

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well. I understand how you feel, but apparently some men mistakenly think that the trip itself is a gift for the woman, so I think you should clearly discuss the allowance. If you’re not careful, you might not even receive your usual allowance. If you’re hoping for at least ¥50,000 this time, you could ask directly, something like: “I’m really looking forward to the trip. Since we’ll be staying overnight, I was hoping for an allowance of ¥50,000 per day. Would that be okay? I’m sorry to ask this even though you’re always so generous with me.” That said, I think he probably assumes that H might happen, so you should decide the amount based on how much you’d want if you do have H. Saying, “I’m not sure whether H will be possible since I don’t know if he’ll get aroused, but I’d be okay with just being affectionate,” still leaves open the possibility that he may get aroused. And even if he doesn’t, it sounds like you’d still take a bath together and be physically affectionate while naked. So I think you should assume H is possible and tell him the amount you’d like to receive.

I’m Kazu, a male member. There’s nothing rude about asking about the allowance. If a man doesn’t want the woman to bring up money, he should take the initiative and offer an allowance himself. Making the woman be the one to mention the allowance without offering anything first is rude on the man’s part. Since he seems to be the rude type, you may just have to ask, “What were you thinking in terms of an allowance?”