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Oct 13, 2021 11:50
5 answers
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
You’ll usually receive the most offers when you first join as a new member.
After that, the number of offers typically declines, and a reshoot may bring them back up a little.
With that in mind, it seems unlikely that simply getting new photos would suddenly lead to a sharp increase in offers when you only had one before the reshoot.
If you received even one offer, I don’t think your looks alone are the issue.
It could be something negative in your profile—for example, saying that you’re often late—or poor feedback from your first date. Either of those can be fatal.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
If you completely change your hairstyle, you might find a look that suits you, so I think it’s worth taking the plunge and making a dramatic change—like getting a short haircut.
With the right hairstyle, you could look so cute that people might hardly recognize you.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
Personally, I choose in this order: photos → comments from the staff and woman → video.
Honestly, if I’m not attracted to her face in the photo, I won’t even look at her profile. However, even if she passes that first impression, I may still decide against it after reading the comments.
As others have said, the best thing you can do is make the most of your comments. I think showing your genuine self is more appealing than trying too hard to look cool.
Even then, if you don’t receive an offer after a while, I suppose you just have to accept that it wasn’t meant to be.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
As Seattle said in their answer, I think the important thing is whether the man enjoys spending time with you. In short, it comes down to how much excitement you can inspire in him.
Rather than trying to appeal to men who make offers based on looks, you should focus on approaching men who don’t. Since you have no control over the profile description written for you at the interview, I think your best bet is to stand out through the comments you can write yourself.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
If you’re really desperate for money, you could go all out and write a long, detailed post with lots of topics to talk about. If you say something like, “I’m struggling financially, so I’ll do anything,” you might get a lot of offers from some real creeps.
More important than looks is whether you seem like someone who’d be fun to talk to.