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Jan 22, 2019 01:54
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Maezawa here.
Some women do receive money without having an intimate relationship.
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But I’d like you to think about this: if you were in the opposite position, would you want to pay money to a man like that? What kind of man would you be willing to support financially?
Please think about that.
Once you have an image of the kind of man you’d be willing to pay money for, look at it from the opposite perspective again and consider whether you are that kind of woman from a man’s point of view.
If you’re not, then become the kind of woman who makes him think, “She’s someone I want to give money to” or “I want to buy her gifts.” I think that’s how you’ll achieve your goal.
From time to time, TV programs feature women who spend huge amounts of money on hosts at host clubs. They might bring 2 million yen for their favorite host and spend it all in one night.
TV doesn’t tell us whether those hosts have an intimate relationship with the women or not, so I can’t say for sure. But even if there were no intimate relationship, if the host had told her from the beginning, “Just give me money—I’m not interested in anything intimate,” wouldn’t she be unlikely to fall for him?
I don’t know exactly how they do it, but rather than saying, “An intimate relationship is out of the question,” perhaps they create a close relationship by implying that they’re interested too, but that “today isn’t possible.”
And perhaps, as a result, they never actually become intimate.
Still, looking at it realistically, if a woman is spending 2 million yen, I can’t help but think there may be an intimate relationship involved.
I think ordinary romantic relationships work in much the same way.
Before you’ve built any kind of relationship, if you say, “I can’t be intimate with you,” is the relationship really going to begin?
Usually, you start dating, and then when things naturally reach that point, you see what happens.
Compared with romance, the time it takes to become intimate may be shorter, but I don’t think the length of time is all that important. What matters more is whether you click.
Also, there are two types of arrangements where someone receives money just for going out to eat.
In the other type, the two people have already become intimate, but after meeting several times, it may turn into:
“It doesn’t have to happen every time, right?”
Then they might meet next time just for dinner, or just to go shopping.
Eventually, she may say, “I receive money just for having dinner.”
Since these are relationships between people, every arrangement is different.