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What would you do if you found out your top girl was seeing a rich old man older than you? My heart won’t stop racing. What should I do?

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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kamihikoki, a male member. If that were the case, I’d break things off immediately. Next time, before it comes to that, try to become your partner’s number one—not your own.
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フラグメーカー
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. I think you’re doing your best—and that’s something to be proud of.
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Just as you arrogantly rank women from best to worst, the women you date are simply ranking men, too. You thought you were the cleanup hitter, but as it turns out, you were nothing more than a bench switch-hitter. Your blood pressure’s going up, so why don’t you just go to bed for now? —Akari
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m columnist Fuu. Just imagine it, questioner(笑) A rich old man A younger, handsome older guy A papa (a male supporter) with both money and skills A handsome boyfriend A handsome friends-with-benefits partner If you’re an exceptionally beautiful woman doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), you might have all that—or maybe even more. Would it make you faint? Sorry for the mean-spirited answer. But as an ordinary Fuu, I’m incredibly grateful to the woman who continues to see me on a monthly arrangement despite all those options. Am I the only one who gets a little excited imagining it? Maybe I’m a pervert(笑)
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From her perspective, you may simply be a backup, while that wealthy old man is the one fulfilling her emotionally, physically, and financially. Just because he’s older doesn’t mean she dislikes him or is only sleeping with him for money. Either way, I doubt your heart rate will go down, but try taking some deep breaths. Marika
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バジル
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member. I know there are plenty of people richer than me, and that I’d never win if I tried to compete in a money game. I’m not possessive, so it doesn’t bother me at all. If she were truly top-tier, I might even feel grateful inside that she was willing to see me for an allowance like this.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Since it doesn’t affect my relationship with her at all, I don’t do anything.
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