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Oct 11, 2021 15:59
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here with an answer.
Fashion starts with your underwear. Women often dress up and wear expensive lingerie as well.
If your goal is simply to obtain worn underwear, I don’t think it needs to be expensive. You might be better off saying something like, “Next time, I’d like some worn underwear.”
That said, I feel most people probably wouldn’t understand wanting underwear in the first place. To soften the request, you could mention that you’d like to buy it for ¥10,000.
Still, lately I feel like there have been a lot of questions involving unusual preferences.
If you’re trying to fulfill a particular preference, there may be places better suited to that than a dating club.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
It depends on the person and the relationship. It’s not that every woman would dislike it, nor that every woman would be happy about it. Personally, I might feel a little put off… I’m pretty vanilla. But if my favorite papa said it, I might be happy—honestly, I wouldn’t know unless it happened. Although, I can’t imagine my current papa saying something like that.
So for now, I think you should consider it if you become really close with someone.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kamihikoki, a male club member.
Not just at the club—if you’ve built a relationship where you can say or ask for anything, then you could probably ask. But I’ve never wanted anything like that before, so I imagine it would be pretty kinky.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Some girls may not be comfortable with it.
I think it depends on the additional allowance and the person involved.
As for figuring that out, I feel your chances are better with someone who’s open to slightly unconventional play rather than just ordinary intimacy. Why not test the waters little by little?
Other
You need to let me know in advance, or I won’t have anything to wear home.
Also, as Nana said, these items are quite expensive, so I’d expect you to give me enough to cover that. For example, even if you’re only taking the panties, I can’t wear the set without both the top and bottom, so please pay for the full set.
That said, if I knew beforehand that you wanted me to give them to you, I might buy something a little more reasonably priced specifically for that purpose.
Marika
Other
I’m Osaka, a male member.
Since this is a dating club, it may be something you can ask for here. Just try presenting it thoughtfully, assuming she might not be comfortable with it. She may be willing to consider it depending on the additional allowance.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Whether she’ll understand that fetish of yours depends on the woman.
I think it’s best to avoid bringing it up the first time.
Once you’ve gotten closer, you might be able to ask her.
Also, that underwear might be one of her favorites, so how about going shopping together beforehand for a new pair and asking her to wear it during your intimate time?
Other
I’m Ayase Nana ♡
It also depends on how much the lingerie costs.
For reference, one piece costs ¥8,000.
Some pieces cost even more.
If you’re willing to pay for the lingerie separately, that’s a different story, though…
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think it’s rude as long as you ask respectfully, though everyone may feel differently about it.