Tips Jan 19, 2019 10:45

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I quit my job last year and have been struggling financially. I found this site while searching online. People have always told me I have a cute, attractive face, but honestly, I can’t even afford to take proper care of my appearance right now. I’m 40 years old, but even without makeup, people often think I look like I’m in my late 20s to 30s. If I look for a man who would support me, despite my age, do you think I could find someone? Also, I don’t have any nice clothes to wear to an interview, so I would have to dress casually. Would I have no chance of passing the interview? I’m really struggling. I would appreciate any replies. ■My Question This Time■ Thank you for your answers. When it comes to what I would wear there, it would have to be Uniqlo jeans and a hoodie… I really do need to wear something more polished, don’t I…? I’ve gained weight and can no longer fit into the clothes I own.
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I’m Saito, a columnist ♪ You’ve thought things through here and found your answer, so I think all that’s left is to go to the interview. Try approaching the interview with the same mindset as when you meet a man for the first time. Even if you pass the interview, are you planning to meet men in a hoodie and jeans? (Some women can pull that look off beautifully, so it’s hard to say for sure.) With a little creativity, there are all kinds of solutions. “There’s no way.” means giving up on thinking of one. There’s always a way, so while you’re at the interview, ask the staff—who interview many women—for advice, including on these points. I hope you find a path forward. I’m rooting for you.
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Maezawa here. Jeans and a hoodie… I’d say wearing either one alone would already be a major strike against you, so wearing both is going to be pretty tough. Depending on the staff member, they might reject you based on that alone. I’m also concerned that you’ve gained weight to the point where your clothes no longer fit. Even if you used to be told you had attractive features and were beautiful, there’s a possibility that people may see you differently now. That leaves you with two options: 1. Come in for the interview right away and have your photos taken in the clothes provided there. 2. Practically fast for about three days—living on salad alone—then come in for the interview once you can somehow fit into your old clothes again. Of the two, I think option 2 would be better. Even if you change clothes for the photos, I’m worried about how men will perceive you if you show up to dates wearing jeans and a hoodie.
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