I’m puzzled by the man who offered me a generous monthly arrangement before we even started an adult relationship (intimate). After a few dinners, things developed into an adult relationship (intimate), but before that happened, I asked about the terms, assuming it would be pay-per-meeting, only to find out he wanted a monthly arrangement. The terms were also far better than what other men offered, and I happily agreed because I liked everything about him, including his personality and appearance. From what he’s told me, he seems very experienced with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I assumed he offered every woman a monthly arrangement right away. But since he also talks about women he sees on a pay-per-meeting basis, I realized that isn’t necessarily the case. He even says it’s fine if I see other men. If he were the possessive type, I could understand why he would offer a monthly arrangement right away, but I find it very puzzling that someone so experienced with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) would do that.
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He’s incredibly kind, we’re very compatible physically, and although we’re far enough apart in age to be parent and child, he listens to me when I need relationship advice. I adore my papa (a male supporter). Do you think he sensed something special about me even before we became intimate?
I’m Dai, a male member.
Even with a monthly arrangement, it’s not a permanent contract, so perhaps he simply wanted to try it for a month first.
Either way, men like him are rare.
I’m glad you found such a good papa.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I think that can happen sometimes. Is there something you’re worried about? At this point, I don’t see any reason to feel uneasy. For now, keep seeing other papas too, while enjoying the affection of your kind papa.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office will answer this one as well.
> From what I can tell from the man’s comments, he seemed quite experienced with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
I think this is the key point.
Since he was already familiar with it, he probably thought she was top-tier based on her profile and made the offer while already feeling there was an 80% chance he’d want a monthly arrangement.
Then, after meeting her, he found that she was just as good as her profile suggested—or even better than her photos. That likely raised his confidence to 99%, making him want a monthly arrangement, which is why he brought it up.
The reason it wasn’t 100% is that there was always a possibility the chemistry might not have been good once they went to a hotel. So even though he brought up a monthly arrangement, there was a 1% chance he might later say, “Actually, let’s forget what I just said.”
Still, I’m glad things worked out and that you hit it off, including the physical chemistry.
> Do you think he felt something special about me even before we were intimate?
Of course, I think he did.
If a man finds a woman attractive and the conversation flows well, many men will already want to see her again at that stage.
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I’m Hikōki, a male member.
There’s no doubt she liked him. He may also be a seasoned guy with the nerve to make an upfront investment.
For men, a pay-per-meeting arrangement means having to meet often (so she won’t become your main partner), but a monthly arrangement has the advantage that you don’t need to meet as frequently. In fact, after meeting just once, you can maintain the arrangement even without meeting again, if you take it to an extreme.
That makes it possible to have any number of women on monthly arrangements, meeting about once a month.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
More than anything, it’s great to hear how genuinely satisfied you seem. So, all’s well that ends well.
I’m sure he wants to build a relationship where you feel that way too, and he probably puts a lot of thought into making you happy. It’s wonderful that you recognize and appreciate that.
As you said, the positive feelings I can sense from your question may also be reflected in the way your current papa (a male supporter) treats you.
I ended up giving a perfectly wholesome answer too, lol.
So frustrating—haha.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
That’s great for you.
You must have really liked her and offered generous terms so she wouldn’t turn you down.
Even if things continued for a long time, I’d never do that—I stick to pay-per-meeting arrangements as a rule.
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