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Oct 10, 2021 12:55
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
As the questioner said, it really depends on the person.
I wrote about this in one of my columns, but the best partner I’ve ever had apparently loved deep kissing. She would kiss me for so long I could barely breathe. Sadly, we eventually broke up…
If you’re a handsome older gentleman and have no bad breath at all, I think your chances of being accepted will be higher.
These days, I’ll go as far as some tongue contact, but I try to avoid getting too much saliva involved. I don’t want to be disliked.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
I like the feeling of tongues touching—it really turns me on. However, quite a few women don’t like it.
I don’t intentionally exchange saliva, whatever the end result may be. I suppose that raises the bar even further, and sometimes things end right there because of it.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer this too.
When it comes to sexual preferences, people clearly fall into two groups: those who can accept them and those who can’t. If both people’s preferences align, they may both experience incredible ecstasy.
But if their preferences differ, I think it can all end with a simple, “That’s gross.”
That said, more experienced people apparently can even figure out their partner’s preferences during the dinner stage. So perhaps you should first work on reaching that level.
Other
Even if I’m deep-kissing someone, I don’t like having saliva dripped on me.
Some people do ask me to give them my saliva, but during sex I’m breathing through my mouth and it gets so dry that I don’t produce enough saliva to drip onto them. So I’ve never actually been able to do it, haha.
Marika
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
If she initiates swapping saliva, she probably enjoys it.
If she doesn’t initiate it, it’s risky to try it yourself.
Even if she accepts, she may be putting up with it for the money while feeling uncomfortable.
After you’ve had an adult relationship a few times, you could ask her directly during pillow talk, like, “Do you think swapping saliva is gross?” That might be a good approach.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
It depends on the woman and the person she’s dealing with.