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Oct 10, 2021 10:53
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Once, someone who had hardly any odor before suddenly developed a strong, unpleasant smell. It completely turned me off. I didn’t ask her about the cause of the odor. I wondered if it might have been due to her health or something, but I’m considering whether to continue seeing her. Should I ask her about it after all?
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this too.
If it’s a woman I’ve been seeing for a long time, I feel like I could say something like:
“You usually don’t have any smell, but you do today. Are you feeling unwell?”
But I think it would be difficult to say that to someone you’re not that close to yet.
That said, if you’re already considering whether to continue seeing her anyway, I think it’s fine to just ask her directly.
Just remember that if you say something like that, she might say something similar to you someday. You should be prepared to respond kindly if that happens.
Only those prepared to be shot should fire a gun.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
My ex-wife made me realize that people can change before and after their period.
Other
It could be due to a woman’s ovulation cycle, her physical condition, or perhaps something left behind from someone finishing inside her. There’s also a possibility that it could be some kind of illness.
It would be rash to assume it’s definitely an illness, but it would be just as rash to simply think, “I’m sure it’s fine.”
Either way, perhaps you could bring it up while showing concern for her well-being.
Akari
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Someone who usually has no odor suddenly smells strange…
That’s an STI, right? If you notice an unusual smell or abnormal discharge, it’s likely an STI, so stop cunnilingus, kissing, and of course sex.
You’re probably already infected, so go get tested and receive treatment, either through an IV drip or oral medication.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I’ve never been with a woman whose scent changed from normal to unpleasant, so I can’t really say.
It could certainly be due to her not feeling well.
You might want to ask her directly whether anything has changed with her health.
Either way, if there’s an unpleasant odor, I’d stop going down on her.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
Even a woman who normally doesn’t have any odor may occasionally have one. So if she hasn’t smelled before, I think it’s best to confirm whether this was just a one-time change before making a judgment.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Date◎Yume.
Regardless of whether it’s the first meeting or an ongoing arrangement, I think it’s better to say something. Of course, you need to be considerate about how you put it, but isn’t it our responsibility as members to speak up when we notice something unusual?
I believe we should all do our part to create a healthy and enjoyable dating environment.
Other
I’m Osaka Elizabeth, a male member.
Fabulous Smell World Journey ♪
The smell issue is a rather delicate matter.
I’d say it’s best to bite the bullet and verify it with them directly.
Please be especially considerate in how you ask.
(Whoops, that was a local joke.)
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
It depends on the relationship I have with her.
If we’ve been seeing each other for several months, I think it’s better to say something, so I’d bring it up as soon as I noticed anything unusual.
If we’d only met a few times, I’m not sure what I’d do. I’d probably lose interest and stop, so I think I’d tell her then to explain why I was ending things.
Whether I’d continue seeing her would depend on how she reacted when I told her that her scent had changed.