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Oct 8, 2021 20:31
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡
Once you’ve experienced the high end, your standards get too high, don’t they?
The person who made me an offer yesterday hadn’t even made a lunch reservation, so we ended up having lunch at a family restaurant（笑）
He offered an allowance of 3 and wanted to go bare, so I politely declined. Just because someone’s older doesn’t mean you can cut corners—it’s a waste of time 😠
Maybe I should take a break from papa-katsu.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Could it be that the increase in male members has actually led to a decline in the overall quality of male members at Universe Club?
If that reputation continues to spread, beautiful women may be hesitant to sign up.
Also, Universe Club has salons these days, so some of the beautiful women may be gravitating there instead.
Personally, I’m happy to see the quality improving lately, with more women I’d like to make offers to at the Gold level.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Joe, a male member.
Although the questioner seems to be getting completely slammed, I hope you don’t mind me saying that I agree with you.
That said, I don’t think this is anything new. I’ve been a member for three years (haha), and even back then, long-time members were lamenting that “the level has gone down.”
I remember a former veteran member, Mr. A, saying, “You might come across one truly stunning woman a year, at most—and she’ll leave almost immediately.” That said, when you actually make an offer, a completely different kind of chemistry can sometimes happen.
I hope you enjoy meeting new people.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer as well.
I’ve revised the question.
According to President Kida, people have been saying this ever since the club was founded.
In other words, it seems to go something like this:
When men first join, they think, “Are there really this many beautiful women here? Amazing!”
But as they go on more and more dates, their expectations of women keep rising. Women who looked beautiful when they first joined start to look ordinary, and they conclude that the quality of women joining Universe has declined.
However, if women really were becoming less attractive every year, men would come in for an interview intending to join, see that these were the only women available, and decide not to join.
But that isn’t happening at all. The number of male members continues to grow. To me, that clearly shows that the quality of the women hasn’t declined whatsoever.
They’ve simply gotten used to it, yet they keep complaining that the quality has dropped or asking why women like this are being admitted.
As a result, the young interview staff on the front lines become intimidated and end up rejecting women during interviews who should have received offers.
I’ve even heard stories of women who are famous in the papa-katsu world on social media being rejected by Universe, only to receive offer after offer from other dating clubs.
Please understand that the belief that the quality has declined is simply a misconception. Complaining to the interview staff only interferes with their work, so I wish people would stop.
If you feel that strongly, why don’t you find a woman who could be called the best of the best at Universe and bring her in?
If you unexpectedly find that no such woman exists, that just proves how high the level of Universe’s women really is.
On the other hand, the woman you bring in might not be all that impressive and could end up being rejected at the interview.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
I feel the same way. COVID may have had something to do with it, too.
But analyzing it in my own way, I think that after meeting various women, the ones at the top become your new standard. Once that happens, the number of women who exceed that standard gradually becomes limited.
When I first joined, my favorites quickly filled several pages. Now, in my fifth year, even including the women I’m still seeing, one page is enough.
You could say my eye has become more discerning—or, put less favorably, that I’ve become desensitized.
Other
I’m Osaka, a male member.
I’d love to hear the details and have a laugh about it. Sorry, I might be drunk lol.
I want an even more detailed analysis lol. For someone like me who can’t make that many offers to begin with, the market seems oversupplied, so I can’t really tell.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
Are you posting repeatedly just to put down the quality of the women here?
Are you an employee of a rival dating club?
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
What I’ve been hearing is that, because of COVID, papas became reluctant to meet new women, so they grew closer to the women they were already seeing.
That’s pretty much what happened with my papas—we’ve become even closer since COVID. But I’m not particularly beautiful, so the reason may be different from why the gorgeous women disappeared.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I joined last year, so I don’t know all the details, but I think it’s either the “it’s all in your head” phenomenon—or what I call the “we’re just being greedy” phenomenon.
For what it’s worth, two of the women I approached soon after joining are still in my life. Since then, I’ve approached dozens of women, but I haven’t met anyone who surpasses those two. Everyone from the third woman onward has only lasted a few months before being replaced.
People are greedy, so what they want keeps increasing.
At the same time, my relationship with the women I’ve continued seeing has grown deeper, and I’ve developed feelings for them, so those have become genuinely good relationships.
That’s why I think I end up feeling that something is missing with any new women I approach.
Also, whether they’re talking about male or female members, I can’t stand people who comment on the “quality” of members of the opposite sex. I always think, “Who do you think you are?”
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
At times like that, why not take a moment to reflect on the fact that you’re the one who has to make the offer?
If you had treated the other person well enough that they had nothing to complain about, you wouldn’t be grumbling about it now.
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
You mention the quality of the women, but I think women feel that the quality of the men has been declining too.
Personally, I believe women’s attitudes get worse because they keep encountering men who are poor quality.