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Oct 7, 2021 10:38
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Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I wouldn’t know, since I’ve never come across someone like that. The men I’ve met through the dating club—whether they’re handsome older men or ordinary older men—have all given me money equally.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Don’t you think they just don’t exist?
I think people looking for that would go somewhere else.
No one comes to a fishing pond—a world where you pay to meet someone—looking for wild fish. And I don’t think they could get the same sense of fulfillment here.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Do you make them fall for you,
or do you end up falling for them?
I wonder which it is.
Handsome,
with a smile that makes them seem harmless,
and young—
Maybe the ones who seem like a great match are actually the dangerous ones?
Just speculating, though.
Other
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
This may be a slightly difficult way to put it, but there are plenty of women who are willing to be intimate for free.
However, in private relationships, there’s often more to lose, and things can easily turn into trouble. That’s why many men pursue papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Nothing is more expensive than free.
That’s what I mean, though…
Sorry for the off-the-mark answer.
Other
Is he obviously handsome—someone who’s well-groomed and put-together… that kind of person?
Ayase Nana gets a little wary of men like that.
Other
I’m Osaka, a male member.
Watch out for troublesome people from Kansai, lol.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this too.
I think men like that generally fall into one of these patterns:
① They invite you to a hotel but never discuss the allowance. Even afterward, they don’t pay. When the woman asks, “What about my allowance?” they hand her only ¥10,000 to brush it off. In reality, that’s just the transportation fee Universe talks about, so they’re basically getting intimacy for free.
② They date you while paying an allowance, but say things like, “In a real relationship, there wouldn’t be any allowance involved, right? I want to support you with the important things, but paying an allowance feels too much like prostitution. If there’s something you want, I’ll buy it for you.” In practice, though, they never actually buy you anything of much value.
③ They’re kind to the woman, buy her things, and flatter her, waiting for her to say on her own, “I don’t need an allowance.”
I think the third type would be fine.
But regarding the first and second types, I want to tell women: Don’t get caught by men like that.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
They probably do exist. Their defining trait is that they get a sense of accomplishment from making a PJ fall for them and become intimate with them for free.
I think people should break the habit of trying to get something easily.
If you saw someone asking, “I’d like to know what kind of PJ would be willing to be intimate with me for free,” wouldn’t you think, “What an idiot”?