STIs aside, don’t you think there’s a fairly high chance of getting sick from the stress of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? Even if you’re fine now, couldn’t you develop a mental illness or cancer sometime in the near future?
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Even when the other person isn’t particularly unpleasant, there are times when we unconsciously neglect ourselves and suppress who we are in order to receive money.
I want to learn how to let stress roll off me. I’m sure you all understand how frightening invisible stress can be, but how do you deal with it?
I’m Basil, a male member.
Even a regular job comes with stress. In fact, depending on who you’re dealing with, a papa (a male supporter) may be more considerate than the people and pressures at work, so it can actually be less stressful.
Not just with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—if you can accept that earning money is more or less compensation for dealing with stress, it becomes easier.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Once I decided to only see papas who don’t stress me out, the stress disappeared. I guess having enough money helps too. There’s nothing better than a life where you don’t have to work—or where it doesn’t matter whether you work or not.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Cancer from papa-katsu…? It seems like a lot of people end up emotionally unwell, but I’m not ordering you to do papa-katsu at all. If you hate it that much, then walk away.
My way of relieving stress is having monthly intimate time with someone I really love. He’s a perfect fit for me, so it feels wonderful—and I’m starting to have withdrawal symptoms and want to see him（笑).
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here, too.
Hmm…
If you compare becoming a full-time employee—especially as a new hire—with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), papa-katsu seems like it would be less stressful.
But if you feel that working a regular job wouldn’t be stressful, then perhaps thinking of papa-katsu as a job would make it feel less stressful too.
Hmm…
I imagine some people end up taking their own lives when their stress exceeds its limit, but do people really get to that point because of stress from papa-katsu?
If not, I suppose it could be said that working a regular job is actually more stressful.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t know about cancer, but I often come across questions from people who are clearly struggling mentally. I think the best way to deal with that is not to force yourself to continue seeing someone you don’t like.
In life, not just in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), there are times when you have to put up with certain things. So if you’re worried about that kind of stress or cancer, perhaps you’d be better off cutting yourself off from society and living somewhere with clean air.
Asking questions online is also a connection to society, so you might want to start by stopping your use of the internet.
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