Tips
Oct 5, 2021 23:00
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I’m Nishioka, one of the staff members.
Any words a woman says with the intention of making me happy would make me happy.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I’d be happy to hear “I love you” during adult intimacy. If I really like him, it wouldn’t feel too intense.
The things I’m happy to hear are:
“I wanted to see you.”
“That feels good.”
“More.”
“I’m going to come.”
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
If she isn’t giving off a heavy vibe by saying things like “I want you to see only me” or “I want to meet much more often,” I think I’d honestly be happy to hear her say she really likes me.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
More than words, what makes me happy is when she wants to see me often, we actually meet that frequently, there are no scheduling issues or last-minute plans getting in the way, and she doesn’t bring up her allowance. Actions and attitude matter more than what someone says—that’s what’s really important.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
I’d be happy if someone told me they loved me. If they genuinely meant it, that would make me happy, and even if they were saying it because they thought it would please me, I’d still appreciate it. Besides, people who are overly intense usually show plenty of other signs, so just saying “I love you” isn’t a red flag on its own.
Honestly, I’d be happy to hear anything as long as it’s something they truly like about me.
I love that commercial where the guy acts all disappointed and condescending because the bulletin hasn’t been passed around, the flower bed hasn’t been watered, and his dog Koro hasn’t been fed, saying, “You really can’t be trusted with anything…” Then he’s told, “I bought the Kyu-chan already,” goes quiet for a moment, looks down, and says, “That’s what I like about you.” It cracks me up every time I see it.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I don’t think it means much with a suspicious papa (a male supporter), or with a papa who puts his family first to the point that he won’t reveal much about himself—the kind of person who doesn’t feel the need to build a deeper relationship. But I think a papa who strongly wants a romantic connection would be happy to hear it.
So personally, I think it’s best to let your papa fall really hard for you first, and then respond with, “I love you!”
After all, being told “I love you” by someone you only feel average about—not someone you particularly like—doesn’t really make your heart flutter…