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Oct 5, 2021 10:40
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Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
I think there’s only been one girl in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) who wouldn’t give me a blowjob.
Some of them may have experience working in the adult entertainment industry, but I find it hard to believe they all learned it through papa-katsu. I just assume girls these days do it pretty normally. Things have certainly changed—none of the girls I dated when I was younger would do it.
Being quick to agree to a blowjob doesn’t necessarily mean she’s been with a lot of people.
Even with a regular boyfriend the first time you have sex, if he asks, couldn’t you just think, “My previous boyfriend loved this,” and do it for him?
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
It probably wasn’t because she gave me a blowjob, but because she was just too good at it.
Even if I say that’s not what happened, what’s done is done.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
In all my years, the only women who haven’t given me oral sex were women I met through dating sites for compensated dating.
Honestly, I feel like the ones who don’t are more jaded and professional.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date Yume, a male member.
Haha（笑）
I checked the question box for the first time in two or three days, and found a pretty good question（笑）
Don’t say, “I’m beautiful, so what’s wrong with having been with a lot of people?”（笑）
You could also try asking, “Were they good?”
Once an adult relationship begins, it certainly helps if they know what they’re doing（笑）
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this too.
> He asked me, “Can you give me oral on our first time?”
So, even though your boyfriend was the one who brought it up, did he think you seemed experienced after you actually did it?
He sounds like a strange boyfriend, but maybe he wanted you to say, “I’ve never done it before, so please show me.”
> Even if I tell him now that it wasn’t like that, he won’t believe me, right?
If you say it wasn’t like that after the fact, he probably won’t understand what exactly was different. So I think what you need to deny is the number of people you’ve been with.
I don’t know your actual number of partners, but you could simply say you’ve only been with one other person. Since you have nothing to lose, that might be best.
Of course, before giving him oral, you could also have said something like, “I’ve barely dated anyone. Don’t ask…”
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
What a pain—he asked you to do it, and now he’s complaining? You should get mad at him and say, “You told me to do it!”