Tips
Oct 4, 2021 00:07
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Honestly, I have a very ordinary, everyday face, but I’ve maintained good relationships with the male members I’ve met for years, and I’m truly grateful to this club.
However, I really don’t understand why I receive offers.
It’s not as though I’m particularly good at conversation.
I’ve wondered whether it’s because I’m not a money-focused person, so relationships with me are easier to maintain—but what do you think is appealing about me?
My bust is larger than average, so could that be why I receive more offers?
I’d like to work on my strengths, so could you tell me why even Standard members receive offers?
8 answers
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Apparently, “Kanegon” is actually pretty commonly used. I’m jealous.
I’d also love for someone to use “Oman Colé Gabbana” and “Kittsu Mangrove.”
Other
I’m Osaka, a male member.
Seeing is believing—once they view your profile, I think they’ll understand your appeal.
And if you go one step further and actually meet, they’ll probably realize how attractive you are, especially if the relationship continues.
Sometimes I’ll find someone who catches my eye because of her class or photos and think, “Wow!” But then I watch her video and go, “Oh…” and delete her. Men aren’t idiots, after all—we notice what we notice.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
> I really don’t understand why I keep receiving offers.
There can be various reasons, so it’s hard to say for sure, but:
① At the end of the day, you look good
Even if they aren’t conventionally beautiful, some women have a charming appeal, or simply give off a “I’d like to meet her” kind of vibe.
② The staff liked you during the interview, and wrote positive comments
For example, if a staff member writes, “Highly recommended,” someone may think, “Maybe I’ll send her an offer.”
③ You have sex appeal
This overlaps with point ①, but sometimes a woman’s photos give off a certain sensuality, and that can lead to offers.
> I’m not particularly good at conversation, either.
People can’t really know whether you’re good at conversation until they meet you, so I don’t think it affects whether you receive offers.
(In extreme cases, it might be mentioned in the staff comments, though.)
> Maybe things tend to continue because I’m not a Kanegon-type?
This is no longer about receiving offers, but I do think this can affect whether things continue after you receive one.
Incidentally, there are women who receive a high allowance without being Kanegon-types. I think being a Kanegon-type isn’t determined by the amount of the allowance, but by how often money comes up in the woman’s conversation.
> My breasts are larger than average. Could that be why I receive more offers?
Do you mean around a C cup by “average”?
If they’re around a D, I don’t think it would make much difference.
If they’re G cup or larger, then it could have an impact, but it’s difficult to judge based on them being merely larger than average.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
When I searched for Standard women nationwide, I found three women in their twenties with high ☆ ratings.
I assume a high ☆ rating means they receive a fair number of offers and go on good dates.
Also, I get the impression that busty women tend to be listed as Standard when their height minus weight is around 100.
While answering this, I happened to run the search above and discovered a page from the Fukuoka branch titled “For reference when making an offer: 1 year old.”
It was really interesting and helpful. I wish they would do this for other regions too.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
It’d be easier to discuss if you were getting an absurd number of offers, but you’re getting a decent number. That’s good, though(笑). I think that’s probably why the people you meet tend to stick around—you’re not trying too hard, and that’s part of your appeal. Treasure that quality.
Also, getting offers and having an arrangement last are two different things. As for getting offers, it probably depends on how many of these you have going for you: 1) a refined, wholesome look, 2) not seeming overly money-focused, 3) a large bust, and 4) being Type B but seeming open to an adult relationship (intimate). Since you seem to meet at least criteria 2 and 3, I’d say you’re doing pretty well.
The woman I dated the longest through Universe was Standard. “Standard” means average, after all—not inferior or subordinated. I think you should hold your head high. It also emphasizes having a large bust. Somehow this turned into a pretty confusing response, but good luck.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
That’s great—you’re getting lots of offers.
Just stay as you are: don’t dye your hair or go for an overly flashy look. Like me, a certain number of male members want to date a young, ordinary girl. The fact that you’re not money-hungry is also rare and valuable. I’m sure your papa (a male supporter) will treat you well.
It’s also possible that you’re getting extra stars because your date feedback has been good, or that the club is recommending you because of positive comments on your profile based on how well you handled the interview, photo shoot, or phone calls with the club. I’d almost want to make you an offer myself.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I assume the club has different classes so that every member gets offers.
This is just speculation, but I think it’s best to come across as a normal, decent person.
Other
Ah, I’m probably the same way, haha.
And I’m not in my 20s—I’m around 50.
Marika