I’m planning an adult relationship with a man soon, but I find his appearance off-putting, so I’m thinking of asking that we not do either deep kissing or oral sex. Would you be shocked or turned off if a woman said that to you?

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When turning him down, I’m basically thinking of saying, “I don’t like having foreign objects put in my mouth. Both deep kissing and oral sex make me feel nauseous.” Please refrain from giving unhelpful answers like “If you dislike it that much, you just shouldn’t pursue the relationship.”

Answer 1

I’m Fuu, a column writer. So you’re willing to endure H even though it makes you feel nauseous? If someone said that to me, I’d have them leave right then and there—I wouldn’t consider them worth giving an allowance to.

Answer 2

I’m Tetsu, a male member. If someone said that to me, I’d think, “Then I’ll pass on an adult relationship.” It would be no different from a sex doll with a broken opening, so I’d rather just go home and take care of myself.

Answer 3

I’m Aya, a female member. I can’t really imagine how a papa who looks creepy feels, so I can’t say for sure, but I imagine it might be a bit of a turnoff. If both sides’ needs match, the relationship can continue, so I think that’s fine. Just don’t force yourself.

Answer 4

I’m Kazu, a male member. If you dislike it that much, then don’t date anyone—I find it a real turnoff (lol).

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