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Sep 27, 2021 07:32
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I’ve heard that women who are especially cautious about being identified tend to feel more at ease when a man gives them his business card, which can help them open up and build a closer relationship.
But I feel that the only reason someone would be willing to hand over a business card is because being found out wouldn’t cause them any major problems...
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
My current papa gave me his business card at our first meeting, but I’ve also had men who gave me their cards at the first meeting later turn into stalkers or harass me. So I don’t think it has much to do with building trust.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I only give my business card to clients. With anyone else, I might mention it, but I don’t actually hand one over.
If giving someone my card automatically meant we’d become close, I’d hand it out all the time lol.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
I think what you say and how you conduct yourself matter more than a business card.
Stay humble.
Other
Isn’t it strange to give the allowance after meeting several times?
I usually receive it at the first meeting. Even then, I just think, “Oh, he’s the kind of person who gives an allowance to everyone, even when meeting them for the first time.”
Marika
Other
I’m Osaka, a male member.
I sometimes give an allowance, but there’s no particular strategy or ulterior motive behind it. I wonder how effective it really is.
In business, people exchange them even when meeting for the first time, after all.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’ve never given any of the women I date my business card. Even if I did, I don’t think it would help us become any closer.
Other
Whether or not I actually give it to them, it did give me some peace of mind.
My information also comes up if someone searches for it, and I’ve had people look into me in detail before I even told them my real name.
Since it works both ways, I think it can help both parties feel more at ease.
That said, younger female members may have different reasons. This is just how it is in my case.
Akari
Other
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
In my case, it’s not completely impossible, and anyone who searches my name would find out right away, but I don’t think there’s any benefit to it.
They might worry that I’ll seriously fall for them, though…