I’d appreciate some advice on how to keep sex from feeling like a routine chore even after being together for many years. I’ve already had one failed marriage.
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I found someone I truly adore some time ago, and I’m thinking it may be time to settle down. As long as she’s comfortable with it, I’d like to face things together and support her wholeheartedly. I’m 60, and she’s in her late 30s. We’re planning to start living together.
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
It’s true—when a relationship goes on for a long time, intimacy can start to feel routine.
If I were Fuu, I would:
- Reduce the frequency of intimacy, as the other respondents suggested.
- Learn what each other likes and dislikes.
- Occasionally change the setting and make intimacy more exciting for your partner.
If the man takes the lead, changes the setting now and then, avoids anything his partner dislikes, and does something different from the usual routine, it may help keep things from becoming mechanical. Women tend to enjoy things like hot springs or hotels with night views, don’t they?
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I’m Nana Ayase♡
You don’t have to have sex every day—could you keep it to about twice a month?
It sounds like you’re having fun, from gentle intimacy to wearing different outfits and trying bondage. Let’s try various things as long as the woman is comfortable with them.
> A true favorite… I wonder if the woman feels the same way? There’s a possibility that only the man thinks she’s his favorite.
> Did you get the woman’s approval to live together?
There’s no end to it if you start doubting everything, but I also think it’s unwise to trust someone too much, so be careful about where you hide valuables and money.
☆ Mac-san
That’s wonderful—it’s amazing that you can stay by each other’s side for 20 years.
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