Tips Sep 26, 2021 20:43

Being made to develop cystitis from unprotected sex, being infected with an STI, being pressured to take the pill, and not receiving the allowance.

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Is this really a club where you can meet gentlemen? I’d like you to show me something that would allow me to believe in Universe. You’re probably making offers specifically to girls who have trouble speaking up. “Pure and innocent” means girls who can’t clearly say no, doesn’t it? Far from gentlemen, they seem to have the character of people who belong in prison. The women answering here must all be the kind of people who can clearly say no. I’ve realized that you shouldn’t join casually based on the opinions here, and that you probably can’t manage this unless you’re a truly tough-minded person. Doesn’t it make you feel heartsick to think that young girls are enduring this much suffering for money, even living with dangerous men?
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フラグメーカー
フラグメーカー Male Column Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. There are no true gentlemen here—only fake “perverts with manners.”
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Basically, I can’t clearly say when I don’t like something or want to refuse. That often leaves me feeling overwhelmed or even affects my health, but my papas understand that and support me. Whenever we have an adult relationship (intimate), I always wash thoroughly beforehand, and they never pressure me. I do wonder whether having lots of papas or dating multiple people just to receive an allowance beyond what I could reasonably expect comes across that way to the other person as well. Sure, there may be some people who are gross, but isn’t the person asking this question—who gets angry and lashes out while making assumptions about everyone—just as bad? Akari
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. Oh, here we go. Are you one of those anti-Universe people? Or maybe someone from a rival agency? For example, I’ve heard that at other dating clubs, the allowance is decided unilaterally by the club and communicated to the men, that dinner-only arrangements aren’t allowed, and that once you register, you can’t cancel your membership for a certain period of time. Naturally, they probably don’t have a survey system like Universe Club, and I doubt they have anywhere to make this kind of information public, so I have no idea how women are treated there. Conversely, Universe Club has a post-date feedback system, and everything is made public. (Names and other identifying details are removed when necessary, but otherwise it’s all disclosed.) This makes it possible for anyone to see what’s going on. On top of that, the staff don’t just listen sympathetically to consultations—although sometimes they do side more with the men—but have even gone so far as to introduce members to lawyers… They also created the Universe Police, and if a man does something wrong, he can be forcibly banned. They’re also currently developing a rating system for men. I don’t know whether it will actually be completed, but once it is, bad men should be exposed one after another. There has already been a rating system for women for some time, using star ratings to indicate whether someone is a good woman or not. (That said, it mainly focuses on whether she is late or cancels, and anyone who does something seriously wrong is forcibly banned.) Isn’t Universe Club the only one doing this much, even including dating apps? And yet people ask us to show them what they should believe in. I’m not really sure whose anti-fan they are or whether they’re just trying to drag us down, but it honestly makes me laugh a little. Of course, no matter how hard we try, bad men won’t disappear completely—just as crime doesn’t fall to zero no matter how hard the police work in Japan. Even so, among the places facilitating matches, I feel that Universe is probably the one taking safety most seriously. I’m sure the others are making an effort too, but I don’t think there’s anywhere else that makes post-date feedback public. Though maybe I just don’t know about them.
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I’m Osaka, a male member. You really do cherry-pick whatever parts you like, jump to conclusions, and go on talking as if you’re some kind of hero. Your fantasies are clearly spilling over. I feel sorry for anyone who has to read this.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. The fact that there are cases like that also means there’s a large enough pool for them to exist. I’ve never come across a terrible woman, and I’ve been reasonably satisfied overall. Oh, are you asking about men? I wouldn’t know—I’ve never met one.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist. What exactly is your position here? lol Are you speaking on behalf of the other questioners? You’re not a member, are you? You clearly have strong opinions of your own, and you’re plenty outspoken. If the girl with cystitis doesn’t get financial help from her papa (a male supporter), wouldn’t it be even harder for her if he decided to end things out of pity and she lost her place to stay? Are you going to support her yourself as a volunteer? Also, since this is anonymous and not limited to members, some questions are about app-based papas, not Universe. Some questions are even made up. And there are exaggerated questions, like yours, where people simply vent their anger. Everyone has their own circumstances, so it’s better not to jump to conclusions or make sweeping assumptions. People who are struggling submit questions to the Q&A box. Some of them are bound to be negative. People who are satisfied have no reason to ask questions in the first place.
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I’m Aya, a female member. I’m not very good at saying no, but strangely enough, I’ve never had a papa pass a disease on to me or make me do anything weird. My current generous (well-paying) papa has never even asked me to do anything like that, and maybe he’s a germaphobe, because whenever we’re going to do anything intimate, he always showers first. Maybe I’m just lucky—or maybe it’s because I only go to hotels with people I actually like. I think it’s better not to sleep with too many people. The more people you see, the higher the chances of running into a bad one.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. If that’s how you feel, perhaps it would be best to quit. No one forced you to sign up, did they?
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡ Like Marika, I can’t clearly say no either. I end up feeling like I have to provide a service. That said, I do get angry sometimes—especially at people who mock those who don’t follow the etiquette of this Q&A forum. Please don’t just assume that respondents are strong-willed.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. People who are satisfied with their arrangements don’t come here to ask questions. They’re the silent majority. Even if you can’t clearly say you don’t like something, there are plenty of ways to deal with it. Choosing to put up with something for the money is the individual’s choice—it isn’t the club’s responsibility.
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I’m not really the type to say what I think, so I simply distance myself from people I don’t like without saying anything. And I choose to spend time with people I genuinely think are wonderful. But if I may say so, rather than pushing yourself to receive a large amount of money, I think it’s better to work a proper part-time job and live within your means. Marika
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