My papa lives on the same floor of the apartment building, and he comes over almost every night. It’s been about six months.
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He often enters me without showering first, but I feel like I can’t say no, so I kept accepting it—and I ended up with a urinary tract infection.
Even after I go to the bathroom, I constantly feel like I need to go again, and I’ve started having more accidents. I’m really struggling.
The medical bills are adding up too.
Even when I bring it up, he doesn’t seem to take the hint. What can I say to get him to shower before coming over?
I know I’m receiving a substantial amount of money, so I understand that I’m supposed to put up with it.
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Cystitis won’t clear up if your partner isn’t keeping clean. Tell your papa (a male supporter) that your doctor said it could develop into pyelonephritis or a yeast infection, and then it would be far more serious than just an adult relationship (intimate).
Could your papa be married!?
Would it be a problem if you smelled like soap when you went back to your own apartment?
- Find a soap with a subtle scent and keep it ready for your papa.
- If he finds it bothersome, offer to wash him yourself.
Hopefully, he’ll start taking a shower...
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I can’t help thinking that if you’re not satisfied, you should look for another man...
That said, as everyone has pointed out, it would be best if you could first get the man to understand that you want him to stop.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
No, you should definitely say something!
I think they’ll understand if you say, “My doctor asked me whether I’d had sex without washing beforehand. You might want to be more careful.”
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I’ll answer too—Maezawa from the CEO’s office.
Maybe suggest creating a culture of showering together, like:
“I’d like us to wash each other from now on.”
Or perhaps establish a routine of taking baths together?
Otherwise, you could be more direct:
“I have a urinary tract infection, so I’d like you to shower first. I’ll wash you, so it’s okay, right?”
Something along those lines, maybe?
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