I’ve been registered with Universe for a little over a year now.
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Sorry if this is just a question out of curiosity, but would around 30 offers over approximately a year and a half be considered a lot or a few?
If that is considered a lot, would it ever lead to them thinking, “She already gets plenty of offers, so we won’t send many more her way” (or not actively recommend her)?
Most of the people I’ve met here have been wonderful, and I’m still seeing some of them after more than a year. I’m hoping to have just a few more good encounters.
I’m Dai, a male member.
I think that’s probably on the higher side.
I don’t think the staff would stop recommending you just because you receive a lot of offers.
However, if you get negative feedback from any of those 30 dates, your star rating may drop, and the number of offers you receive could decrease sharply.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I’d say it’s probably on the higher side.
Since clubs are basically focused on referral fees, I don’t think they’ll stop actively recommending you just because you receive a lot of offers. On the contrary, they may even promote you as “a popular woman!”
That said, I think it’s best to continue seeing the men you really click with without adding more than two of them.
The hardest thing in a dating club is continuing to see the same person.
Whether you’re a man or a woman, relationships based on sheer numbers don’t offer all that much.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
You’re getting a lot of offers.
I think having more staff members is reassuring and makes it easier to move forward. When male members ask about you, they’ll probably recommend you enthusiastically.
Even after about a year and a half, I think there’s still a good chance of meeting someone worthwhile. With all the experience you’ve gained, you’ll probably be better at judging people and making decisions by then. Some men may also choose to make offers to popular women at that point.
From a man’s perspective, it can also feel reassuring when someone chooses him from among many potential matches.
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I’m columnist writer Fuu.
Since around half of the women registered with the club never receive any offers, I’d say 30 offers a year is actually quite a lot.
Male members can’t see how many offers a woman has received from her profile. So they have no reason to hold back because she gets a lot of offers. At most, they can guess whether she receives many or few offers based on the number of “likes” on her selfie photos.
Have you had your photos retaken or confirmed your continued membership with the club? This can raise your profile’s ranking, so if you want more offers, I definitely recommend it.
The reason offers gradually decrease as more time passes after joining is that your profile gets pushed lower in the listings.
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